destructive lies vs. protective lies

posted February 19th, 2017 at 4:25 PM

i understand white lies, protective lies. i don't understand destructive ones. "Mommy says you have a new girlfriend now" How do you react to an 8 year old saying that when it's not true? When everything you are doing is for that mom and her daughter. Then the mom brags to you about her infidelities to hurt you, but simultaneously tells others via social media that it's you who's doing it to her.

6 Comments

you show your daughter how a man reacts

Feb 20, 2017 at 1:53pm

She's watching you. What you do is how all men are.

That

Feb 20, 2017 at 1:59pm

Is called a sociopath. So you can tell your 8 year old that "mommy is a psycho, honey". Or, "Daddy left Mommy because she has lots of boyfriends". Or just take the high road and let your kid figure things out as they get older. the truth will always come out.

Get out there.

Feb 20, 2017 at 7:09pm

Well, if she's going to accuse you of it............ make it true.

Anonymous

Feb 20, 2017 at 9:17pm

Parental alienation?

my experience

Feb 21, 2017 at 7:00am

My wife was telling my daughter all kinds of lies. She was buy my daughter gifts with my money net and telling her it was her money, introducing her to several simultaneous extra marital boyfriends. Stealing money from me and others.

Total liar. Total psychopath.

I am worried its going to end as a murder suicide because my daughter is about to enter individuation, she's going to figure out who the horrible person is and my ex couldn't lice with that. Told the police my concerns and they don't give a shit.

Men do not matter. Its simple.

Wifey..

Feb 24, 2017 at 1:24pm

Sounds like a nut job. Get out now, keep in contact with the kid. If she is smart and can think for herself, she will learn mommies true ways soon enough.