Obsessed & pathetic

posted March 29th, 2017 at 6:55 AM

I'm completely obsessed with someone who has not been in my life for almost 6 years now. I digitally stalk them although I know it's not healthy for me. (Don't worry I only look at their online content. No trolling, no contact.) I need to work on stopping this behavior and get over them. So what if I miss them and still have feelings for them. Of course I do, I haven't let go. Life has gone on. Not having them in my life hasn't stopped me from living, just made me slightly pathetic thinking about them still. I just need to get over it. I'm so done with this obsession. Onward and upward!!!

5 Comments

Why

Mar 30, 2017 at 12:24pm

Haven't you contacted them? Maybe they think about you also.

Wow...

Mar 30, 2017 at 6:11pm

I know this isn't about me, but I wish it was.
That said, six years is a pretty long time, so, you know, maybe your nervous system is trying to tell you something.
It's more complicated than just the part you're conscious of.

New hobby

Mar 30, 2017 at 9:22pm

Why don't you try doing other things to can help take your mind off that person? Maybe go for a long run or jog, bike ride, see a movie?

AGuy

Mar 30, 2017 at 10:03pm

i miss you too. (and creep you too). i share your feelings. i don't have any answers though. i'm not even sure if i should post this. in fact, i had to promise to never contact you. is it more cruel to reply with impossibility than to not reply at all? i had a title here you would instantly know but removed it for ambiguity.

@AGuy

Apr 2, 2017 at 4:49pm

I agonized and debated with myself whether to post on your comment. There's a 85% chance that you are the one I miss. There's so much I want to say but realize that it's best to keep it to myself so I'll just say thank you. Although nothing about our situation changes, it's somewhat comforting to know I'm not alone. I wish you well until we meet again my friend.