I'm friends-ish with my ex. We keep in touch and chat from time to time. We dated for several years and broke up several years ago. We have always admitted that we had a strong connection, I mean, we were once madly in love. This was 5 years ago. In the past year, I've gotten engaged and am now a dad x2 to a little boy and girl. I thought we were both in happy relationships and were happy for each other. It made me sick when she called me to tell me things you shouldn't tell a man who has a family, but it also makes me sick that I still care about her. I need the balls to tell her she can't come crawling to me when she's not getting what she wants in her relationship, because she's doing that now.