but what did the letter s do to you?

My BF is a total downer. It's ruining my life! I have to break it off.

Wait, lemme get this straight... You were hanging out with lazy people at one point?? But they're lazy! They got like zero urge to hang out with anybody! So that must mean you were helping them lead better lives and not be lazy, right. A role model, yeah? But then, now, you've got zero urge just like them. Does that mean you're lazy, too, and if so, thereby justifying their continued negativity in life into perpetuity?

Dear Anonymous - you totally missed my point. I'm saying if I was to meet someone who had traits that didn't gel with my own, I wouldn't entertain a relationship / friendship with them. Re: lazy - I mean those who are complacent and do nothing to better their life - just complain and complain. I can be a role model by the way I live my life - but I am no babysitter. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink - and I have better things to do with my time towards making my life awesome than to "look after" some 30 and 40 year olds. Come on now. I can see from how you replied, we would never gel in a million years. CASE IN POINT.