Why do so many guys think that telling a woman that they would "let" her suck it is something that any woman reacts to with anything other than hysterical laughter or puking noises?

Ew. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry that happened to you OP. My mom worked as a waitress for many years and its hard. A lot of people think that because they are paying money somewhere, they practically own the people who work there. Add to this, the rampant male chauvinism that makes too many of us think women were put on this Earth to be playthings, and you end up with situations like the one you were in. The people you're talking about are cowards who do this to women in the service/hospitality industry because it makes them feel like they are reclaiming their fragile masculinity. They figure you can't really do anything to rebuff or upset them because your bosses worry about losing revenues, not your well-being. I really wish guys would figure out some sort of social code that would help us police ourselves better. We don't do a good job calling each other out in these sorts of situations.

I'm pretty much done. used to be a waitress. dudes think for a $5 beer they can grab all they want. fuck that.

all is fine and dandy with the behavior of women acting wild and touchy at a Bachelorette party....seems a bit sexist to me.

no it's not fine or dandy. literally no one here said or implied that at all. crawl back into your troll hole, bro.

is a total Misandrist....assuming the poster is a man...typical hater.