Squeeze toy

I really dislike when my boyfriend grabs my breasts. Sure when we're intimate, go nuts but when we are hanging out in pubic or even just together, it's just uncomfortable to me and really bothers me. When I tell him he takes offence because we're in a relationship and I shouldn't take it so seriously and he "appreciates my boobs, so what's the big deal?" it's my body and I shouldn't be made to feel like a total prude because I don't like my boobs being honked randomly.

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maybe a compromise

Jul 16, 2017 at 4:26pm

of - not in public and/or less often?

You must be young. I remember feeling that way too in the past.
Wait til you pass your 30s and join the women-who-have-become-invisible.

It's your body....

Jul 16, 2017 at 5:06pm

you make the rules, public groping is very low class anyway.

Ah ha

Jul 16, 2017 at 5:13pm

Agreed! Same problem!

Return the favour

Jul 16, 2017 at 6:01pm

By giving him a good, hard poke with your finger in his behind spot. Odds are, his gratuitous boob grabbing will stop pretty quick.

you sound

Jul 16, 2017 at 7:33pm

Really uptight

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You're my kind of girl...

Jul 16, 2017 at 8:04pm

...if you call it getting your breasts "honked". Smile.

Tell him to keep his mitts to himself in public.

Gleeful spectator

Jul 16, 2017 at 8:48pm

"go NUTS but when we are hanging out in PUBIC"

Freudian slip?

OMG

Jul 16, 2017 at 8:58pm

OMG, I think I dated this same guy back in Toronto! Does he actually say, "HONK!" when he grabs one of the girls? At least my guy never did it in public. That being said, after he repeatedly ignored my requests to stop, I ended up having to give him a taste of his own medicine by randomly grabbing his junk while singing the Oscar Mayer Wiener song at the top of my lungs. He soon cut the boob honking out. Good luck!

Totally Agree

Jul 16, 2017 at 10:49pm

They're your breasts. Not his. You get to decide when, where, and by whom. You. Not him. Just because the two of you are in a relationship doesn't give him license to grab your breasts anytime he feels like it - he obviously didn't ask and you didn't give your consent. Remind him of this.

Two can play this game

Jul 16, 2017 at 11:53pm

Try fondling his balls in public and see how he likes it.

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