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posted Tuesday, July 3, 2012 at 10:21pm
I'm sorry to vent, but I'm sick of my lady friends telling me they have a girl friend they'd like me to meet, only to have the girl take a look at a picture of me or say hi once and decide she isn't going to give me a chance. Everyone I know says I'm good looking, a nice guy and they don't understand how I don't have a girlfriend. But this continues to happen and I don't get it. I think I look decent, have a good job, I'm funny and I'm a good communicator. I don't wear Armani and I don't give a rats ass about all this social status garbage everyone else seems to be preoccupied with. I'm just at the end of my wits here trying to figure out what it is about me that these girls decide makes me unworthy of their time. Give a guy with a good heart a chance. I'm past chasing girls based on looks and all the other superficial things. Why can't I just find someone who will at least try to get to know me?
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Jul 4, 2012 at 9:07 am
Whoa, lady friends? Dating? Must be nice to have people around you and not live in a cave waiting for death.
Jul 4, 2012 at 9:56 am
I feel what you are going through and ik have to say you are going meeting people in all the wrong places. I am going to give you places guys have approached me and i gladly accepted dates. I have met guys at libraries, malls, beaches, coffee shops, liquor stores, volunteering, and movie theatres. Have fun meeting peole. I know i have had lots fun.
Jul 4, 2012 at 10:51 am
I don't know either, man. I'm unemployed, just turned 30, totally unstable, can't drink because I'm an alcoholic, and I've been back at school upgrading after a wasted youth, so my income is the paltry remnants of student loans, an allowance really, because I've blown every dollar I've ever made. I don't have a car. I have two pairs of pants.
I always see these "I'm a great guy but women blow me off" posts. I am not a great guy: I am a loser. A stereotypical loser.
What I can't understand, then, is that I can always find a woman who wants to sleep with me. I always have the option of going out with this girl or that girl. I don't have a secret. I'm not handsome. I don't lie. I do make an effort to lift the spirits of any woman that I go out with, or that I come into contact with that I like, thats for sure... but don't you, too? Why do I have so many options when you don't?
Makes me wonder when I see these posts. Are yopu depressed? Are you sure that's it all of womandom that's to blame? Are you really all that interesting? It's not really all that hard to meet a woman, get her number, and go out, have a little relationship, a lover every now and then.
To keep a woman, on the other hand... sigh. True love is fucking rare.
I always see these "I'm a great guy but women blow me off" posts. I am not a great guy: I am a loser. A stereotypical loser.
What I can't understand, then, is that I can always find a woman who wants to sleep with me. I always have the option of going out with this girl or that girl. I don't have a secret. I'm not handsome. I don't lie. I do make an effort to lift the spirits of any woman that I go out with, or that I come into contact with that I like, thats for sure... but don't you, too? Why do I have so many options when you don't?
Makes me wonder when I see these posts. Are yopu depressed? Are you sure that's it all of womandom that's to blame? Are you really all that interesting? It's not really all that hard to meet a woman, get her number, and go out, have a little relationship, a lover every now and then.
To keep a woman, on the other hand... sigh. True love is fucking rare.
Jul 4, 2012 at 6:37 pm
Always underestimates my beauty, my worth.
I find most men do the opposite. They over estimate their desirability. Are you sure that you are as handsome as your mother really says that you are?!
I find most men do the opposite. They over estimate their desirability. Are you sure that you are as handsome as your mother really says that you are?!
Jul 5, 2012 at 2:07 pm
I have a guy friend who sounds just like you. He's tall, handsome, easy to talk to has a million and one friends that are smoking hot girls. He goes after the completely unavailable ones either emotionally or physically. And i'm standing in front of him actually trying to make something beyond friends happen, but he's clueless. My advice from a girls perspective "MAN THE FUCK UP"
Jul 5, 2012 at 10:46 pm
Maybe you just make a bad first impression? Possibly you come on too strong, or like you're trying too hard? Just guess.
Good luck man. Never give up.
Good luck man. Never give up.
Jul 6, 2012 at 6:26 pm
Well, just reading this post, seeing your "this always happens.." downer attitude to dating, I'm just going to wager to bet that as "nice" as you are in person, you probably don't come off as particularly confident.
The secret that "?" has caught on to without realizing, but you haven't, is that the kind of guy most girls really want, is the kind of guy who isn't really worried about being in a relationship. This isn't to say you should become an asshole player, but just... worry more about your life, your interests, your job, your hobbies, and less about having a girl in your life. The more content you are in your own life, the more attractive you'll become.
The secret that "?" has caught on to without realizing, but you haven't, is that the kind of guy most girls really want, is the kind of guy who isn't really worried about being in a relationship. This isn't to say you should become an asshole player, but just... worry more about your life, your interests, your job, your hobbies, and less about having a girl in your life. The more content you are in your own life, the more attractive you'll become.
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