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posted Saturday, September 10, 2011 at 3:26pm
I date a lot, but I don't feel the flutteriness i should. no matter how incredible they are,something is missing.
the last one,wants to move forward so much so he wants to marry me. would he be a great husband?; yes.
but am i settling when i just don't feel butterflies;can i love someone without butterflies? and do i love him? should i wait til i do? and will I ever feel butterflies? or is it enough to be with a man who has butterflies for me? and forget about finding one I feel butterflies for?maybe at this age you don't feel butterflies. Since I can't answer my questions, i just accept another date with another guy and its another saturday.Are butterflies extinct?
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Sep 10, 2011 at 3:50 pm
butterflies die when innocence leaves. Age and guarded emotions after a prolonged hurt will cause the loss of innocence. If you look to appreciate the simple joys of the moments with him again, they may return. Try cooking a fancy dinner together and cause a big mess. it worked for me once
Sep 10, 2011 at 3:58 pm
u wouldnt wanna pay a premium for an average dinner would you? so why would you settle for someone who just loves u but u dont feel the same for them? its not fair to u nor him
Sep 10, 2011 at 4:08 pm
To actual people, You are right. I have been hurt but that so long ago i don't even think about it and have dated so many since then. but maybe thats why I don't feel that fluttering in my tummy. i wonder did my heart stop feeling?
and thank you for being so caring.
and thank you for being so caring.
Sep 10, 2011 at 8:29 pm
No, butterflies still exist, but fly a bit less with time and age. I agree with the first poster, somewhat. But don't settle. It's easy to find something comfortable, but you'll always be questioning your choice. And when the butterflies do come along, then you'll be panicking about what to do.
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