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posted Wednesday, May 9, 2012 at 4:50am
I met a guy over Facebook, when he added me as a friend just over a week ago, six degrees of separation you could say. I live in Vancouver, he in Victoria. In this time we have been talking over Skype often. I am going to meet him for the first time next week. Instantly we were crazy for each other, and even more now. I know I am head over heels, which is hard to wrap my head around. I am ecstatic to say he is moving in with me at the end of the month. I love this man more than I ever thought possible, excited for what the future holds.
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May 9, 2012 at 7:59 am
I would suggest a criminal background check, and if you have any meaningful assets, you should both sign a cohabitation agreement.
It is wonderful to be in love and for all this to happen so suddenly, but don't let the chance that it might not work out wipe out everything you have worked for so far.
Best of luck to you.
It is wonderful to be in love and for all this to happen so suddenly, but don't let the chance that it might not work out wipe out everything you have worked for so far.
Best of luck to you.
May 9, 2012 at 8:32 am
I know it feels nice now, but you haven't met him in person, have only known him for a week. Give it some time before you think you're 'falling'- love is a really, really strong feeling. I don't know if you can love someone in such a short period of time, especially without meeting them.
May 9, 2012 at 8:54 am
Yep. It sounds crazy. And unsafe. You haven't even met him yet and have him moving in at the end of the month? Nothing anyone can say will make you see the absurdity of your involvement.
May 9, 2012 at 10:54 am
He is moving IN with YOU???.. wtf
sounds like someone needs a roof over his head.
maybe just DATE for now,and don't play house.
if you do decide to let him move in (especially if you own your own home), make sure you understand the laws around Common Law Relationships , remember letting someone into your home (playing house) has finanical responsibilities, whether you like it or not.
sounds like someone needs a roof over his head.
maybe just DATE for now,and don't play house.
if you do decide to let him move in (especially if you own your own home), make sure you understand the laws around Common Law Relationships , remember letting someone into your home (playing house) has finanical responsibilities, whether you like it or not.
May 9, 2012 at 11:01 am
wow your a fucking dumbass and thats all there is too it
May 9, 2012 at 11:17 am
How old are you? 21?!
May 9, 2012 at 11:23 am
What does he do for a living?
May 9, 2012 at 12:22 pm
Uh-oh spaghetti-o.
May 9, 2012 at 12:54 pm
yeah, your gonna get screwed in more ways than one, trust me on this one
May 9, 2012 at 1:51 pm
I knew a guy from travelling. We reconnected and spent 3 years talking via Skype before he came over here. 3 YEARS. It was clear in the first week that we were not right for each other. Talking via internet is no substitute for real life interaction. As the others have said, be careful. Definitely have an out for yourself if need be.
May 9, 2012 at 2:38 pm
While I believe love comes in many colors and shades, one can not fall in love without knowing the other person. Infatuation, connection, hope...these can all be instant but love is learned and earned.
May 9, 2012 at 3:30 pm
You need to look up the meaning of that phrase. Crazy isn't the right word. It sounds more like desperate,lonely, too young, lonely,dumb or dangerous.
May 9, 2012 at 6:10 pm
What if he turns out to be a misogynist or has halitosis or even worse... HIV. Condoms suck.
May 9, 2012 at 7:56 pm
'Does this sound crazy?'
No, it doesn't. It sounds insane! Wow, are you ever going to regret this later. I hope you don't get too badly hurt and sure hope you don't end up with any diseases.
No, it doesn't. It sounds insane! Wow, are you ever going to regret this later. I hope you don't get too badly hurt and sure hope you don't end up with any diseases.
May 9, 2012 at 10:49 pm
Liking him - no. Moving in with him after a month - yes.
May 10, 2012 at 7:26 am
You're going to meet him live for the first time next week; you're moving in together at the end of the month. Does that sound as dumb to you as it does to me??? What is exactly is the rush to co-habitate? One of you is dumb for asking to/ the other dumb for agreeing ...
May 10, 2012 at 6:11 pm
Whoa, this is Bogus.
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