posted Saturday, July 28, 2012 at 3:52pm
For anyone who confesses a self-pitying loneliness cry... You are lonely for one of these simple reasons: 1.You are in denial about how lonely you've been your whole life and wrongly think that being in a relationship makes your loneliness go away -- it doesn't, it just masks it. 2. You believe that your worth as a person is determined by whether or not you have a partner. 3. You blame the actions and choices of other people (or society as a whole) for why you are single. or... 4. You blame yourself too harshy and your lack of self-love comes out in ways which make you unappealing. Hope that helps, these were realizations I worked hard to come to. I'm single too, but I am not filled with emptiness or heartache because of it and I wanted to share why.