Help me out here!!!

I am thinking your spelling and grammar might be the first issue to address.

Ok ladies you'll never be able to keep a guy from looking at other women. That's a cold hard fact. They're animals. They can't help themselves. (I have two brothers and come from a large family with mostly males and therefore have many male friends as well so trust me I know. I know how they talk about women, what they want, what they expect from us and what their frustrations are when it comes to women. You can't imagine some of the conversations I've been privy to). However, that doesn't mean that lessons can't be learned from our more primitive counterparts and one those lessons is (and I'm sure you've heard it already): Men are visual. I am attractive, keep my body toned (barre exercises!), I'm well read and educated and friendly, I dress well and yes I enjoy being a woman and do dress in a matter that highlights/exenuates my feminine features (I do not feel that yoga pants are acceptable day wear unless you are coming from yoga. It's just plain lazy, girls. And those ratty little hair buns that girls seem to think is cute is just ugly.) When I walk down the street men stare - single men, men who are with their partners, guys in their cars (I've literally stopped traffic), I even had a GAY guy stop me as I was crossing the street because he said the way I lit my cigarette was the sexiest thing he'd ever seen. I do not understand when a woman will give me a dirty look or a dirty side glance because their man was looking at me. If you don't like it become the woman that men look at. Show your man that you are a sexual creature and that men notice you. Men like that other men notice the woman they are with for they are simple creatures who only need a bit of ego stroking to become putty in your hands. So flaunt it, put out every once in a while and for pete's sake SMILE! I hate hearing that guys in Vancouver don't approach women because they are all snobby, stuck up, think they're better than whatever and don't smile! Getting what you want from a man (and it can be anything) is very easy - so let your hair down, show a little bit of skin, put on a bit of make up, dress up a little bit and laugh and smile. Enjoy being a girl, you will feel younger, look younger and men (of all kinds) will notice the effort and appreciate it and your man will notice that they are noticing you. Act like a woman but think like a man ladies! Whew. Now as for the douche bag who put up this posting: there is no excuse to be sleeping with your significant other's friends or sister. In that respect the issue is you and not your girlfriend. You are the kind of guy that my brothers, male friends, and my dad warned me about. You would not get the time of day from a woman like me. Those women whom you say you are cheating on your girlfriend with are also no friend of hers. As I mentioned earlier, you can not keep a man from checking out other women (it seems to be hard wired in them to do so) but to be ogling and gawking at them instead of being discreet is just disrespectful and hurtful. She should dump all of you and start off fresh.

.You expect her to get all dolled up for you, and be at your beck and call. Meanwhile, you are ogling other women, cheating on her and spending all of your energy on other women behind her back.

Maybe she senses you are douche so she has stropped trying to spend all of her energy trying to impress the likes of you. You are the type of jerk that can never be satisfied.

I bet you that you are no prize yourself. You call the woman that you are dating an old bitter hag, why are you with her in the first place?

You are one bitter, hateful, womanizing misogynist and I hope that I never run into a man like you!

you are low.

We young women don't want your ugly old ass either. Man up and tell your wife what your problem is so we don't have to hear it.

First of all, us women "dress up' because we believe in personal hygene....not because we are begging for you to stick your 4'' vancouver weiner into us. I would absolutely love for the tables to turn.. freaky friday style.. and for you to be writing this article from anything but a completely ignorant perspective,. You're right, our makeup is not perfectly applied 24/7... and maybe the day, that we are too tired to cook for your hairy, lazy, ignorant ass, the waitress looks a little more polished than us. Did you ever wonder, if maybe, just maybe.. the women who seem to pay you so much attention to you, WERE WORKING!?!??!?! For tips?

Please, op, shake your fat, uneducated head.

Sincerely,
A lovely 21 yr old server.