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posted Sunday, August 5, 2012 at 12:39am
When I said marriage, I meant marriage. Therefore these types of feelings don't disappear even though you did. I understand why it all had to come to this, but I don't understand why It needs to be this way forever. Think about it, really think about it. We've had to heal a lot of messed-up memories, we've needed these years apart. If it was anyone else I'd say RIP to the thought of us connecting again....but it's you and me and we didn't go through hell together for nothing. We gotta try and make some new good memories now, you have to see who I am now. You deserve your happy ending. You got brutally robbed of so much and you suffered so much, but life is long and the best is yet to come--let life surprise you in ways you never thought possible, come see how enduring my love for you has been all these years. It's shatter proof. Wait until you see the castle I'm building for you out of these ashes. There's no harm in taking a peek behind the curtain....
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Aug 5, 2012 at 7:40 am
Taking your ex back is like keeping your dead dog , somethings are better left buried
Aug 5, 2012 at 12:59 pm
Agree, there's no harm in connecting again and seeing where you both are at. Life works in mysterious ways, especially love. Sounds like you have a rare connection like my ex and I. We didn't speak or see each other for over five years, now we are happily married.
Aug 5, 2012 at 9:47 pm
I don't think of my exes as dead dogs, we aren't close friends either but I was lucky enough to be given closure. It sounds like you didn't get any from this "disappearing" person. He might have been a coward or hiding in pain- but for whatever reason he's left you in waiting. Don't let life pass you by. I admire your loyal heart but don't waste it on the wrong person.
Aug 11, 2012 at 3:13 pm
when you accept what is you will not be living in the past. it sounds as though you are spending too much time in your head thinking about what if's. you've gotta decide to move on. the other person is no longer with you. if you were meant to be together you would be now. if you continue to hope and wish you are not living now in the present and life is passing you by. time stops for no one. yes you had some memories and special times with the other person. if that other person really wanted to be with you they would be now. you've gotta decide that you deserve some happiness and find someone to share your life with now. holding a candle to the wind it will only get blown out. maybe it already has but you haven't noticed yet. good luck and take care. invest some time in meeting new people and doing new things. make a new life for yourself here and now. Peace + Love
Aug 13, 2012 at 1:17 am
I'll move on when I feel I have closure, until then this is the position I have been left in. I will hold out hope until I am given a direct, straightforward communication from them. Their absence is a part of my present and it effects my future. However, thank you for the advice.
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