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posted Monday, August 6, 2012 at 10:47am
I'm gay and over last few months had a big crush on a straight guy at work. I'm out to him and we get along great, and have even started to become friends outside of work. I've had crushes on straight friends before, and eventually get over it. Is it wrong to allow this friendship to develop without telling him about the crush, hoping it will pass over time, and I'll just be left with a friend? I'm worried if I tell him he'll just be creeped out and I'll lose everything.
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Aug 6, 2012 at 6:14 pm
It's possible he senses the crush - I think we often know when someone is interested in us - so it's probably not an issue for him.
If he senses it, he probably respects you for how you're handling it (obviously, if he hangs out with you after work!).
If he senses it, he probably respects you for how you're handling it (obviously, if he hangs out with you after work!).
Aug 6, 2012 at 7:16 pm
He'd probably be flattered. If he's cool, and you're cool, then it's cool. It doesn't have to be serious, awkward and uncomfortable. Sounds like you have a good friendship already. Good luck!
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