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posted Saturday, June 30, 2012 at 11:20am
I am a very attractive person who is sexual. I have been having a dry spell for the last 6 months. This has never happned before. The universe has put a curse on me.I am starting to check out every single attractive person within a 6 mile radius. I am starting to re-consider people I would have never considered if I hadn't been celibate for 6 months. I have a one track mind and I need to get this itch scratched before my eagerness turns into full-blown desperation. One of two scenarios keeps playing out. Either I am not attracted to the person and they are totally into me, or I am into someone and they are not into me. Something has got to give. Desperation does not become me.
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Jul 1, 2012 at 7:39 am
Don't lower you standards, be true to your values and have confidence. You need to get to your "owne happy place" and be happy with who you are. When you are confident and not trying so hard, things will happen. Be ok for being by yourself for a while and again, do not lower your standards!!! You need to feel it, that you want that person so bad and it is all exciting and paiful but so worth it. Unless, you just want sex, ...well, then lower your standards and you'll find it soon. :)
Jul 2, 2012 at 1:24 pm
Gosh, so much to say....where to start????
1) 6 months isn't that long. Perspective is everything.
2) don't lower your standards. I've sat across from people who aren't able to look me in the eye when they are talking. Who don't complete their sentences; whose hands are shaking and I notice that their fingernails have been bitten to the quick and hands havent been cared for 'ever'. Don't get me wrong...I love a man who works with his hands, is good with his hands, but self esteem, self care and self confidence is SEXY!
3) don't worry about your ego. It doesn't sound like you are ego driven. It all comes down to attraction and if its not there, its not there. The ability to make me laugh, gets me everytime. That has nothing to do with ego or standards. Its more about self acceptance and confidence.
4) you get my sympathies on your 2 scenerios. I find the same thing...one person is attracted and the other is...can't seem to find a 'fit'. If anyone has any insight on this I would appreciate it.
Best of luck to you and to me!
Hopefully the forcasted sunshine will rev all our engines- teehee. :)
1) 6 months isn't that long. Perspective is everything.
2) don't lower your standards. I've sat across from people who aren't able to look me in the eye when they are talking. Who don't complete their sentences; whose hands are shaking and I notice that their fingernails have been bitten to the quick and hands havent been cared for 'ever'. Don't get me wrong...I love a man who works with his hands, is good with his hands, but self esteem, self care and self confidence is SEXY!
3) don't worry about your ego. It doesn't sound like you are ego driven. It all comes down to attraction and if its not there, its not there. The ability to make me laugh, gets me everytime. That has nothing to do with ego or standards. Its more about self acceptance and confidence.
4) you get my sympathies on your 2 scenerios. I find the same thing...one person is attracted and the other is...can't seem to find a 'fit'. If anyone has any insight on this I would appreciate it.
Best of luck to you and to me!
Hopefully the forcasted sunshine will rev all our engines- teehee. :)
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