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posted Tuesday, August 7, 2012 at 12:36pm
I did what I did out of desperation and deep concern. I was, and still am, VERY worried about you. Please don't shut me out because I love you so much. No one knows who I am - just a concerned friend.
I know our relationship is over, I know you want me out of your life and I am trying to do that as quickly as possible for you, but please don't be so cruel as to shut me out so coldly and so completely.
The way things are right now hurt more than I ever thought possible. Can't we at least end this chapter of our lives civily and with some compassion? I at least deserve that much. Maybe you don't agree.
If only you could have loved me the way I love you.
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Aug 7, 2012 at 1:30 pm
Four simple phrases -- "Please forgive me," "I forgive you," "Thank you," and "I love you" -- carry enormous power. If the love is there, forgiveness can't be far behind. Couples that are "meant to be" are the ones who go through everything meant to tear them apart and come out even stronger than they were before. I hope this happens for you. Hang in there.
Aug 7, 2012 at 6:06 pm
Words only do so much but actions such as cutting someone off altogether are usually the result of many mistakes .... actions ... or lack of love ...inactions.
Words might make for a good story but they are not the fabric of life.
Words might make for a good story but they are not the fabric of life.
Aug 7, 2012 at 10:40 pm
My ex cut me off completely too...chaged numbers, took the pets without letting me visit or hear how they are doing, and then proceeded to get chummy with a couple of close friends of mine out of spite. Exes find a way to mentally justify their cruel heartless actions. You must have done something that they deem unforgivable in their minds and they are sticking to it come hell or high water. The only thing I could have done to get treated with a certain level of civility after I agonaizingly and thourly apologized and gave them space was move to another far off galaxy...unfortunatly I couldn't do that last part, so I am stuck here to live out the rest of my life in this awkward space filled with sadness and regret. Join the shitty end of the deal club :(
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