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posted Friday, May 11, 2012 at 5:46pm
Men who think there are a lack of good women in this town must have unrealistic expectations. There are babes everywhere yet it is us who are actually faced with underwhelming options! Can't meet someone? Perhaps it's time to lower your standard because you probably aren't that great yourself! Men, get your head out of your a$$es and be more polite and less lazy with women. It would also help if you stopped blabbing on and on about yourself to try and impress us. Good luck
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May 11, 2012 at 9:49 pm
Finding someone who loves you beyond your flaws is rare. So many times people end-up alone and searching because they gave up on someone who loved them. They got sick of the disagreements, didn't want to feel pain anymore and set-off to find better. Now they want someone to fill their exes shoes (without the problems). They didn't properly deal with their past relationship failures and are scared of ever having to go through that again. That is what baggage is... It is really just a fear of getting hurt that makes people heighten their expectations. They believe that if they select just the right person with no "red flags" that this new relationship won't end-up like the last one.
Because men don't like to think about, or talk about their feelings, pain and regrets as much as women do, they carry more baggage- therefore end-up pickier and with more unrealistic expectations. They get scared off easily.
Because men don't like to think about, or talk about their feelings, pain and regrets as much as women do, they carry more baggage- therefore end-up pickier and with more unrealistic expectations. They get scared off easily.
May 11, 2012 at 9:53 pm
As much as I want to say you're right, you can't blame it all on the men. We all have unrealistic expectations. I admit I've rejected some nice guys because I found them personality and humorless. Love is really a fairly new concept when you consider most of history saw marriages based on match-making or convenience.
May 11, 2012 at 10:42 pm
Ok are women in Vancouver with the time of day...no not really. Example, walking down the street and you see a nice looking woman, heck you see any woman that catches you eye. If you look in her general direction they look away...just rude. You smile at said woman..they look away...you say hello to a woman no response. So what makes the women in Vancouver such a great thing...nothing at all. people in this city as a whole suck..men and women alike. Living here all my life and traveling the world over, Vancouver is the worst place to meet real people.
May 11, 2012 at 11:44 pm
You can't expect a glance from afar, a hello to get an immediate response. Sometimes people need to soak it in and process that a stranger is acknowledging them...I've had encounters like that where I'd look away as a "reflex" after someone smiled at me only for it to be too late to reciprocate that smile once I realize they were smiling at ME.
May 12, 2012 at 3:20 am
I have to agree and disagree with the confession itself. Disagreeing because I don't believe that happens with only men, I believe that is true with many woman out there. Really depends on the person you want to be. One would self adjust their own attitude as long as you're seeking for a good relationship. Maturity. Simple.
And to the dude below me, bitter much?
And to the dude below me, bitter much?
May 12, 2012 at 12:42 pm
@Ya Right
You've never heard of stranger-danger? What do you say to her next, "I need you to help find my puppy"?
You've never heard of stranger-danger? What do you say to her next, "I need you to help find my puppy"?
May 12, 2012 at 5:25 pm
It's always felt weird when a man smiles at me (a girl), but not other men. Like some kind of special attention specifically for being a cute girl. It feels cheesy and weird. I will smile back at friendly guys who nod and smile at different types of people. Girl's can feel the difference between a lonely single guy's smile and a cheerful guys one. A person who's cheerful to everyone wouldn't complain about "girls" not smiling back..so i guess youre the lonely one.
May 12, 2012 at 7:58 pm
all i read was: blah blah blah men are jerks.
yes we are, because we don't put up with dainty feminine bullshit. having a girl who is delicate can be cute, but having a girl who whines is bullshit.
So, on that note, quit whining
yes we are, because we don't put up with dainty feminine bullshit. having a girl who is delicate can be cute, but having a girl who whines is bullshit.
So, on that note, quit whining
May 14, 2012 at 1:06 am
@charles bukowski... You are aware that the reason this is called "confessions" is because it is a place for people to vent things that they can't get away with doing elsewhere, right? Also, I hope you are aware that "all i read was: blah blah blah men are jerks." is really whiny sounding too... and very grade-schoolish.
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