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posted Wednesday, May 11, 2011 at 9:15am
I know it's bad but I'm addicted to online porn. It's not that I like it that much, it's just that my wife decided to stop having sex with me about 4 years ago. Now I'm a masturbating fool.
Ladies, I know sex is a big inconvenience but unless the constant SEX is there most men will look elsewhere. I'm seriously starting to think an affair is a good idea as well, despite the fact that I love my wife. Hugs and cuddles and are just not enough.
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May 11, 2011 at 9:28 am
I don't see anything wrong with a little internet porn, but it sounds as if what you really need is to get laid. Has she really decided to stop having sex with you, or is she just not in the mood most of the time? Why not try some romantic gesture designed to sweep her off her feet and into the bedroom? And if your one of those guys who doesn't know where to start with romantic, spend some time searching for that online in between the porn breaks.
May 11, 2011 at 12:51 pm
I always try to explain to my female friends male pigginess and horniness. They always stare blankly.
May 11, 2011 at 4:08 pm
Not ALL women hate having sex... as soon as the sex is gone in my relationship I'm OUTTA THERE! and I also think a little internet porn here and there is nothing to feel bad about. You need to let her know that this lack of sex thing is not working for you. Tell her nicely. If she is a mature woman she will work out a solution with you.
May 12, 2011 at 5:50 pm
I suspect there is much more going on. If you previously had a decent sex life and that changed, then I guess you have some choices ahead. Do you explore why things changed by being adults and talking about it? Do you jeopardize your marriage and family (if you have children) by having extra-marital affairs?
I've never once in my life heard a woman describe sex with her partner as an "inconvenience." Have you considered whether she is bored with your sex life, so avoids it? Does she feel like you have a marriage of equals and do you help around the house etc.?
I'd suggest an open conversation and/or going to marriage counseling. If not, I predict a messy, perhaps expensive split up and divorce in the next few years. I guess on the upside you will have all the time in the world then to compulsively watch porn and masturbate. Good luck finding any single women who find that appealing. Also, single women tend to find men with ex-wives (and kids if they are in the mix) not really worth the trouble. It says I failed marriage once already. The stats suggest if someone had one marital failure, the chances of a 2nd one failing are even higher. Consider your options well.
I've never once in my life heard a woman describe sex with her partner as an "inconvenience." Have you considered whether she is bored with your sex life, so avoids it? Does she feel like you have a marriage of equals and do you help around the house etc.?
I'd suggest an open conversation and/or going to marriage counseling. If not, I predict a messy, perhaps expensive split up and divorce in the next few years. I guess on the upside you will have all the time in the world then to compulsively watch porn and masturbate. Good luck finding any single women who find that appealing. Also, single women tend to find men with ex-wives (and kids if they are in the mix) not really worth the trouble. It says I failed marriage once already. The stats suggest if someone had one marital failure, the chances of a 2nd one failing are even higher. Consider your options well.
May 13, 2011 at 10:16 am
Dude - for what you pay in internet and port site membership fees every month you could either a) wine and dine your lady and start giving her what she wants and needs; b) get a stack of $5 bills and head to the front row of the No. 5 Orange; or c) check out the adult services ads on the back of the Straight.
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