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posted Thursday, June 21, 2012 at 5:15pm
I was married for 15 years and am divorced with two children. I am 40 years old and I have partial custody. I have been dating a wonderful 23 year old woman for the past six months. My ex-wife does not approve of the relationship and frankly I couldn't care less what she thinks. I guess getting traded in for a younger model doesn't agree with her. She does not want my girlfriend to interact with our children but since I get them on weekends this is impossible. My kids are pretty small only 3 and 5 so they just know my girlfriend as Aunt Summer. Woman seem to think I am having a midlife crisis but they don't understand what a blood sucker my ex wife is and how much pain and misery she caused me. So I am in charge of my life and I deserve to be happy.
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Jun 22, 2012 at 9:38 am
since you started dating after the divorce u didnt trade in ur ex for a younger model , u basicly couldnt talk a woman who knows herself into dating u so u went for young because those ones dont know enough to see u for what u are right away , in a few years this one will be acting like the last one , know why ? because u are like most men , emotionaly retarded . but u r right u deserve to be happy no matter how it affects ur kids or anyone else for that matter , and ur kids can grow up an do what ur doing . just what we need more idiots
Jun 22, 2012 at 11:14 am
If you respected your childrens emotional wellness and based your decisions from the concept of doing what's best for your children (per family law mandate) you would not bring a 23yr old trollop around your little ones, and confuse them by giving her the title of "aunt". You sir, are a selfish retard, and are basing your decisions from a place of hurt and spite for your "blood sucking" ex wife.
Your toxic attitude has poisened your failed marriage, and that same venom will seep its way into every relationship you have, until you grow the fuck up and behave like an adult.
Your desire, regardless of the circumstance between yourself and your ex, should be to love and honor your children. You do them no service by bad mouthing their mother, regardless of your perception of her. By perpetuating her alleged behaviour for the sake of your "happiness" makes you look just as silly as you claim your wife to be.
tard.
Your toxic attitude has poisened your failed marriage, and that same venom will seep its way into every relationship you have, until you grow the fuck up and behave like an adult.
Your desire, regardless of the circumstance between yourself and your ex, should be to love and honor your children. You do them no service by bad mouthing their mother, regardless of your perception of her. By perpetuating her alleged behaviour for the sake of your "happiness" makes you look just as silly as you claim your wife to be.
tard.
Jun 22, 2012 at 12:07 pm
I think these two comments are a little harsh, maybe even a little bitter. My only question, since the children are so young, why did you and your wife have children when you must have been having problems? Did you think the stress (and beautiful wonder) of children would make everything better? I don't question you divorcing your wife, I question your judgement.
Jun 22, 2012 at 12:47 pm
Permanence is an illusion. Nothing is, nor ever will be. Respect your ex wife, love your kids, enjoy your new partner's company. That's all.
Jun 22, 2012 at 3:28 pm
It's odd that you have your children call your gf "aunt" ...sounds incestuous. Next thing you know the kids'll be playing with jugs n washboards, brewing moonshine and screwing their cousins
Jun 22, 2012 at 3:50 pm
Don't listen to the naysayers. And do come back once and a while to tell us how great banging such a young hottie is.
Jun 23, 2012 at 4:40 pm
I can understand you wanting to move on after your marriage, but 23 is honestly too young. I also think that you should give more thought to this relationship since children are involved. I would be more careful about introducing someone new so quickly after your divorce has ended. This is probably a very confusing time for your children, and this introduction is probably something that you should have held off on. I also agree with the above posters, that the title of aunt is a little weird. I don't blame your ex wife for being protective of who is around your children - she is their mother, not your new girl. I think that during this time your focus should be on your children, more than on yourself being happy (you'll have time for that down the road).
Jun 23, 2012 at 6:38 pm
Man, you sound real stupid. I feel sorry for your kids. At least your ex isn't your wife anymore. But your kids are still your kids. Too bad for them.
Jun 25, 2012 at 11:30 am
you are having some kind of crisis...
Your X wife is lucky to be rid of you.
You seem like a selfish, ego-centric prick, to be blunt. Your children should come first. PERIOD!
I feel sorry for your kids. They are the ones that will suffer in this.
Yes, you have a right to be happy. Be happy with yourself, your kids, your life, being a great Dad. Do what you want on your own time, not your time with your kids.
Your X wife is lucky to be rid of you.
You seem like a selfish, ego-centric prick, to be blunt. Your children should come first. PERIOD!
I feel sorry for your kids. They are the ones that will suffer in this.
Yes, you have a right to be happy. Be happy with yourself, your kids, your life, being a great Dad. Do what you want on your own time, not your time with your kids.
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