
posted Saturday, June 30, 2012 at 11:56pm
I've tried everything but it's been another lonely night for me, my friends & family got people in their lives, as for me, nope, I do things, get out, join groups & things, go to events, I'm definitely not a Jersey Shore etc,looking guy (though been told I'm cool,open-minded & decently attractive, very giving, supportive & not a prude) & not looking for a Jersey Shore etc woman & frankly don't want to curl up to a "good book" or watch TV,so do I turn off potential lovers? Or anyone to be buddies with & hang out,seems like it,maybe because I'm in my 50's, not outgoing enough, I mumble at times or get nervous a lot I don't know.. :(
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Jul 1, 2012 at 10:03 am
If you're a good guy, do you want to meet up and go horseback riding next weekend?
Beth
Beth
Jul 1, 2012 at 10:52 am
My mother was a big fan of singles' dances before she found Mr. Right. She and her buddies would go every weekend and pretty well everyone at these things is 45+ with ladies out numbering men. Look online, I'm sure you'll find some.
Jul 1, 2012 at 4:01 pm
My thoughts are getting out and just doing your day to day stuff and hanging out with good friends, and like this putting yourself out there, you will find someone. I walk a lot in the Delta Bog with my dog and often so single people walking their dogs. My thoughts are if you connect in a place you are already at then you may find yourself a match. Don't hide out at home, and if the online stuff doesn't work, go outside and hang out in healthy places...I am 50 and with a little bit of baggage, but if you met me at Centennial beach or the Delta Bog with my dog, and said Hi...I would likely be saying Hi right back!
Jul 1, 2012 at 11:29 pm
I feel your pain and I do not have an answer. Wish I did........I could say the same as above....it's always the same "just get out there".......I've done that too (for years) but alas, all I can muster is that I feel your pain-not out of pity-just that I can identify. You are not alone.
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