posted Monday, April 30, 2012 at 8:58pm
I've been trying to date on the internet for a few years now with no luck and I think it's because I gave-up on a good chance. I had a relationship several years ago with a girl who had a lot of issues but I stuck by her side. I had a lot of problems too, but I didn't cheat on her. We fought a lot also she cheated on me. I am very proud of myself for leaving her. But still I wonder if I made the right decision because I know she was going through a lot of stuff and troubles from her past when she was with me but she still loved me and was able to see past all my flaws (I had a lot of flaws and didn't treat her well). I also saw how much she changed at the end and was committed to keep on improving. I didn't like how she acted but I "got" her. I just couldn't take the fighting anymore and couldn't rebuild trust yet. I wonder if I took the easy way out? What is stuck in my brain is that she saw our problems as a way to be better and get closer and even wanted counselling. Did I miss an amazing opportunity? What should I do?