posted Thursday, December 12, 2013 at 11:39am
I'm in a relationship where he is getting everything he wants and needs from me, and I am only getting half of what I want and need from him. No need for details. My confession is that I am disappointed in myself that I'm not as strong as I thought I was. I met this guy through work, and we hit it off and thought I could handle a "no strings" arrangement (not just booty call but hanging out too) because I'm a busy person and it fit in with what I needed at the time. Most days it's ok but then my friends remind me that I deserve better than just being a casual girlfriend and I agree but I can't bring it up to him. I think he would be open to something more but until I say something, everything will stay the same. And I'm scared to say something. It's been almost four months.