Unsettling

I like you and our dynamic seems to be working. But yesterday you were rude, leaving me alone and confused. Later, some of our mutual friends told me that there is something seriously wrong with you and that I should run for it- that you're consistently selfish, lack manners, and are very unkempt. It's unsettling to know that what I see is different than what other people see, and I am left wondering whether I should stay or go.