what i am vs what i was

i used to be a slut, i guess. i was sexually liberated and didn't attach myself to any individual just because i had an intimate relationship with him or her. i was more appreciating the experience and looking for a good time. i still don't think of it as trashy or cheap but i understand why some may see it that way. now i'm almost four years into a committed, amazingly loving relationship with the man of my dreams. while i would never dream of cheating on him i still wish i had something to myself: a dirty text message buddy; my daily work flirt whose just a bit more than that. i wonder if it's wrong to wonder if i'm still desirable to other people even though i'm almost perfectly happy.


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Sep 24, 2012 at 2:32pm

More women should be like you! Get him to marry you and then you can cheat all you want.

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Sep 24, 2012 at 2:32pm

if your still wanting that outside of the so called 4yr loving committed relationship your in then your still a slut am sure he/she would be crushed if you told them that

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Sep 24, 2012 at 4:28pm

not sure here....but if you want an open relationship then ....ask away girlfriend. Its the only way of being a honourable person in this situation. Do not lie or cheat. Its wrong.
It does sound like you need to grow up. Does it matter if you are desirable to others? What does that matter? A grown mature woman doesnt concern herself with what others think and nor does she care if others find her desirable, generally. If your man thinks you're great, fucks your brains out in all the ways you like ....sounds pretty good to me. If you want more than that you need to ask. Have some respect for the guy.

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Sep 24, 2012 at 4:48pm

You would never dream of cheating ... But here you are, doing just that ... It won't be long now...

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Sep 24, 2012 at 6:37pm

I feel sorry for the man or woman dating you.

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in your dreams

Sep 25, 2012 at 12:29pm

That is what fantasies are for. Your mind is your own.

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Sep 25, 2012 at 11:41pm

In a city, where men and women seem to find it very difficult to find a decent partner. Here you are complaining about the fact that you are unable to do the thing you have already done in your younger years. Maybe it's not the right time for you to be in such a relationship. Leave him so you can sow more of your wild oats and let him find someone right for him.

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