posted Monday, June 25, 2012 at 8:38am
After more than 10 years of marriage everything is great from communications to income. We are both in our early 40's and the only problem, like a lot of couples is sex! I could have sex 5- 10 times a week. I masterbate her anytime she wants. I go down on her anytime for as long as she likes. I read 50 shades of everything and anything that will give a woman a great sexual experience. She admits, Im attentive, very affectionate and says, that all her friends are jelous of my constant desire to please her sexually. I would bring other guys or girls into bed, anything for a great sex life. Why else are we in intimate relationships? I have friends,work out buds, and colleagues. I want a partner for all those reasons, but I'm not willing to give up on an amazing sex life. I don't get that some say it's not THAT important, BS. Being wanted and desired is human nature, as is wanting please the ones we love. I hate to give up all the rest that is there but I'm still young and have a lot to offer. Funny thing is my wife is always exhausted and satisfied at the end, constantly thanking me for my patience and effort. But once it's over she back to not being effectionate and getting her back to sex is another week of effort?! I just don't get it!!