Yellow fever PISSOFF
posted September 16th, 2012 at 12:55 PM
I am an Asian-Canadian female in my early twenties. I frequently get approached by older creepy guys who call me "exotic" and try to pick me up by asking me about where I am from ("Are you Japanese or Chinese?") Ethnic and cultural identity is fucking complex, you guys. You need to start understanding this. I am from Vancouver, I speak English and Spanish, and I will not be your submissive, cutesy, "kawaiiiiiii~~~" Geisha goddess. I don't know how to make sushi, so don't ask me about sticky rice.
The vain part of me wonders if I am truly beautiful. I seem to only get hit on by guys with yellow fever. Do they even know what beauty is, or are they just drawn my to almond-shaped eyes and black hair and a hope that I will LUV THEM LONG TIME because I possess these features?
30 Comments
Post a CommentHa ha
Sep 16, 2012 at 1:55pm
Love this--You are awesome! I am beginning to understand that men only want a compliant living sex doll to make them sandwiches and fulfill their needs, I can't get a quality man cause I just don't take their (bull)shit.
hmmmmmm
Sep 16, 2012 at 2:09pm
since when is asian exotic in Vancouver??????
yeah with
Sep 16, 2012 at 3:17pm
hmmmmmm. about as exotic as a california roll. and are guys really into cutesy? i think many girls like being cutesy, and guys just take what they can get. Hot and temperamental: that's sexy - the Persians, Lebanese, Turkish girls...
anon
Sep 16, 2012 at 3:49pm
ok you are angry. we get it. maybe don't hold on to that anger though. it won't help you it will only hurt you.
A Male
Sep 16, 2012 at 5:10pm
I'm rather fed up of my sex and their "I'm really turned on by _______ (insert race/ethnic type) girls" attitudes. I must be a freak - I get excited by a girls personality and presentation and all that other boring stuff. If asked I'll always say I have a thing for curvaceous red heads but in my 40+ years I've only ever dated one - once! To all men - dont limit your options with narrow stereotypical views of your ideal woman - Oh and @Ha Ha, sadly I have to agree with you (this poster excepted of course)!
Go Girl.
Sep 16, 2012 at 5:30pm
I love this post. People who responded to it (and even the OP) may not have read all the posted confessions of "Asian-fever" from creepy older men on this site. There's been quite a few!
Also, I respectfully disagree with Anon. This sounds like a healthful burst of anger--one that clears the air and draws the line.
Fevered
Sep 16, 2012 at 10:28pm
I love asian girls. I will not apologize for it. However I'm also not stupid enough to think they are "from" somewhere. No I don't want a submissive toy (well the bedroom is a different matter), I want an equal to live life to the fullest with. I LOVE ASIAN GIRLS.
To Fevered
Sep 17, 2012 at 12:07am
It bothers me that you consider a woman your equal, except for in the bedroom, where she then becomes your sex object.
guess what
Sep 17, 2012 at 12:27am
You want to know whats Exotic???
A Blonde blue eye girl in Richmond /Chinatown/Vancouver/Africa/India,Yemen,
ha ha ha
dr phil
Sep 17, 2012 at 5:37am
You need to relax.
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