posted Saturday, November 17, 2012 at 7:14pm
I've gotten to know a guy through a group. He told me twice that I'm really sweet; via email he said I'm sweet and he's glad he knows me, and on Facebook, when I put up a new picture, he said I was gorgeous (okay, he said "gorgeous, my friend").
Okay, here's the deal. He also posts lots of pics of curvy girls - I mean big girls with voluptuous curves. I have curves but a slim build. And the last time we were out with our group, he was touching the curvy girls on the shoulder, arms, etc - he talks with me, too, but doesn't touch me. He seems to like talking to me, too, but I just don't know. Is body type a huge thing for guys? Does my slimmer build mean that this guy could never be attracted to me? Or is it possible he's touchy with the other women because he feels more comfortable with them (and less comfortable around me because he does like me) OR have I been 'friend-zoned'? I sense he may be insecure but I also know men go after what they want.
Question: do I tell him I'm interested, or just leave it alone? Invite him to meet for coffee or what? I figure I should leave it, but I thought I should get some feedback from you guys, if you don't mind. I tend to do make stupid decisions about men so some male feedback would be nice. Thank you!