Relationships are imperfect and we all mess up at some point or another.
It usually takes being dumped several dozen times before a guy like your boyfriend starts to do the hard work of unpacking and dismantling his assholery.
 

East side culture crawl

To the very handsome man going up in the Arc elevator. I really wanted to say hello and chat with you but I just couldn't today. I was with a very good friend and didn't want to hurt him. It would be wonderful to have a chance to meet you again. I was the tall brunette with the white checked jacket. You wore grey sweats and bought a chocolate ice-cream
When: 
2012-11-17 08:00:00
Where: 
In the elevator of the ARC build