Reality check: This is a vulva

With 18 years’ experience as a stripper under her belt, Wrenna Robertson has noticed a recent trend that bothers her: more and more women want to go for labiaplasty, a cosmetic procedure that changes the appearance of the vulva. It’s not just the fact that dancers with gorgeous bodies are considering the surgery that irks her. It’s the bigger picture.

Given society’s impossible beauty ideals and the way in which women are held up to scrutiny in the media, it’s not enough anymore to aspire to a Kate Moss–like frame. Instead, women of all ages are opting for everything from Botox to boob jobs. Will plastic surgery to reshape or reduce the labia be the next big thing?

Robertson—who has two bachelor of science degrees and a master’s in plant biology—thinks so. She says coworkers have asked for her opinion on whether or not they should go under the knife to make their vulvas more closely resemble the airbrushed versions on display in mainstream porn, such as the “clamshell”, in which the labia minora, or smaller, inner lips of the vulva, are barely discernible. Not only did some of her fellow dancers seem ashamed of the way their vulvas looked, but they were genuinely embarrassed by the subject matter too.

“What struck me was that women started talking to me in a very self-conscious, private, shy manner,” Robertson says in an interview at a downtown Vancouver office. “If anyone should be comfortable talking about it, it should be these dancers.”

So Robertson embarked on a project to get women of all ages, races, sizes, and shapes talking about their sexual organs in a realistic, unabashed way. The result is I’ll Show You Mine (Show Off Books, $40), a hardcover book she edited that features life-size, close-up, colour photographs of women’s vulvas as well as personal stories about them. No two tales—or images—are alike.

The 60 women who took part in the project range in age from 19 to 65. Some are moms, some are grandmas, some are transgender. Some have piercings, some shave, some have “outie pussies”, meaning the labia minora protrude. A few refer to their vagina as their “yoni”; one calls it her “concha”.

While Eve Ensler’s 1996 play The Vagina Monologues started out as a celebration of female sexuality and evolved into an ongoing international movement aimed at addressing violence against women, Robertson describes I’ll Show You Mine as part empowerment tool, part educational resource.

She maintains that easy access to porn, particularly among youth in the Internet age, doesn’t give women an accurate frame of reference regarding their physical features. It does, however, contribute to poor body image. And that can have more than just psychological consequences. According to a study published in the U.S.–based Journal of Sex Research in 2005, women who reported being dissatisfied with their bodies (“feeling frumpy”) had sex less often and experienced less sexual pleasure than those who didn’t.

“What’s represented in porn is not reality,” Robertson says. “Women don’t know what normal is.”¦Porn does not at all represent the full range of diversity.”¦The purpose of this book is to display a much broader range of diversity.” (As someone who makes her living by dancing naked, Robertson isn’t against pornography: “This is not an antiporn campaign,” she stresses.)

Research backs up the claim that false representation of female genitalia exists in popular media. A study published earlier this year in the Journal of Sex Research found media perpetuation of a “Barbie Doll” ideal, characterized by a low body mass index, narrow hips, a big bust, and “hairless, undefined genitalia resembling those of a prepubescent female”.

The London, England–based biannual journal Medical Humanities, meanwhile, ran a study last year concluding that images of female genitals frequently don’t accurately reflect true variation in the population. “Women and health professionals should be aware that”¦consultations for genital surgeries should include discussion about the actual and perceived range of variation in female genital morphology,” the paper said.

The artificial aesthetic proliferated by porn is having an effect. According to a 2010 study in another London-based semiannual publication, Reproductive Health Matters, a British medical group saw a threefold increase in the number of labiaplasties being performed in 2007–08, while inquiries rose sevenfold over the course of three years. “In almost all cases, labiaplasty is a response to the physical appearance of completely normal labia and a desire for more ”˜attractive’ genitalia,” the paper stated.

If a future surge in labiaplasty rates seems far-fetched, Robertson notes that when breast-augmentation surgery became available in the 1950s, it, too, was considered a fringe procedure.

Even if the demand for labiaplasty continues, Robertson is hopeful that I’ll Show You Mine will at least give women more information so that they can make educated choices. She’s hoping moms will share the book with their daughters, who might be worried that there’s something wrong with their appearance. The book is for men too: Robertson says the prevailing misrepresentation of female genitalia misinforms boys, who grow up thinking female genitals should be a certain size and shape and that large labia minora are undesirable. And she’s confident the book will stir dialogue and debate.

“I want to get people talking,” she says. “And this book will definitely get people talking.”

Partial proceeds from I'll Show You Mine will go to charity, and free copies are being made available to schools, teen centres, and medical offices. It's available through Show Off Books.

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Michael Geoghegan
as a man who has come across (no pun intended) perhaps a hundred or more vulvas in my life let me state that I found all of them without exception to be wonderful. It is like looking at a flower some have different sized petals or different shades, it's all good.
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Lisa D.
Shocked, horrified and saddened by the news of this latest trend in "body-shaping". What kind of society are we creating?!! I hate to say that I'm glad I didn't have daughters to raise during what will be known as a very confusing time in women's history. I've tried very hard to instill realistic values about outward appearance in my sons, but I see how it flies in the face of what they are bombarded with every day from every source. I feel I'm losing the battle. Thank you Wrenna for your efforts!
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David P
The world is getting ever more superficial...both men and women are going to lengths to augment or alter thier physical being ... I wold also like to indicate that men in porn are also at the fringes of "the norm" average men don't have 6 packs and 10-12 inch penises ...women shouldn't feel the need to surgically alter the vulva...to much emphasis on the external parts and not enough on the character, soul, humor of a person.
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Tyler Durden
Porn has influenced me to only want to have sex with good looking women, and body imperfections cause me to move on. I only see women as sex objects and the stripper-author is an example of why I view women as sex objects. She dances naked for my physical enjoyment, while her personality doesn't matter at all.
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Angler D
Right on to Michael G. The flower metaphor is perfect. How dull it would be if the only flowers in the world were roses.

Tulips are glorious. And two lips are glorious.
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Marla Singer
Tyler.... The first rule about fight club is your an F'n Idiot!
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Angler D
Tyler is just a troll. He wouldn't know how to find a vulva if you gave him a map and a GPS.

Tyler, ol' buddy, stick with the reliable hand method. Them female bits is way too confusin' for a boy like you.
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Tyler Durden
We live in the age of illusion, substance of a person does not matter, a clever ruse is all you need. Modern men like myself only care about getting sex from good looking women, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Also, ugly vaginas are a deal breaker because there are so many women that line up to have sex with men, like me, who have money. It's a use-use situation, and it is what generation y has learned to expect. What do you expect from a generation raised on porn?
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Theodore
Angler D, typically the object of trolling is to blatantly insult someone or something and that does not appear to be the case with Tyler. He has stated his opinion on the matter and justified it.
In addition to your self-deemed-witty remark, most GPS units are typically only accurate to within seven feet, should this radius be the error considered when locating a vulva, a labiaplasty might not be such a bad thing. And I hardly believe that a map will clearly show the location of one vagina unless it is depicted on a scale near 1:1. If someone's desire to look a different way than they currently do results in them feeling more comfortable and confident, they should be entitled to take whatever measures necessary. It ain't your snooch.
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Cornelius
Actually, Tyler is right!

For the same reason many women wanted breast implants and now are increasingly wanting labiaplasts, men have been conditioned to desire the "perfect" porn they saw as children or adolescents. Why does the advertising world continue to use one type of body for a woman or a man in any of their explicit or suggestive ads?

We are all victims of a society that only allows us to portray our bodies as the same.
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Pat Crowe
They all look like salami sandwiches to me. More or less.
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Taxpayers R Us
Would definitely do the author, she doesn't look like she'd need any adjusting.
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Kate R.
The BBC did a great documentary, "The Perfect Vagina", about this very subject, three years ago.

http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=878_1250041194
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Aerphex
The article's great and Robertson seems to be on the right track, but reading the comments I suddenly realize the answer is no, I don't want to hear Vancouverites talk about vulvas.
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@Aerphex...
...at least, I don't want to hear 13-year-old boys who have never been with a woman talk about vulvas, which seems to be the case with a few posters here.
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cranky mom
female parts are much prettier than male parts. I can't wait until Tylers balls are hanging down around his knees. It is a shame that ladies (plus more & more men) feel the need to alter themselves so drastically.
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Steve Fahnestalk
I have to agree with Michael. Ladies, your parts are perfect as created--please don't change them to some imagined kind of perfection!
As Robert A. Heinlein said in "The Notebooks of Lazarus Long," they look like orchids and they're just beautiful. The source not only of sexuality but of new people!
Women rule! (And unlike "Tyler Durden" and a few other ignorant males above, I'm not afraid to, nor ashamed to, post my real name.)
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Pat Crowe
Okay, okay I'll take back the salami sandwich crack. Sorry if I offended anyone particularly.
What I meant to say was a taco. More or less.
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pat s
Why does a woman with 2 science degrees and a Masters strip for a living? What is THAT message?
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Arrby
This author's assertions just don't track. Statements by Robertson, such as "She maintains that easy access to porn, particularly among youth in the Internet age, doesn’t give women an accurate frame of reference regarding their physical features," are wildly wrong. When someone says that porn isn't reality, and he or she doesn't bother to explain, you have to wonder who their target audience is. Porn is 'and' isn't reality. We all know that. The argument, with Robertson, which I assume the author of this article agrees with (no authors with other views are cited), that porn doesn't depict real bodies is bogus. Unless you actually watch only a very little porn, you will find all kinds of body types in porn. You will find, in fact, 'every' body type, including some that are abnormal. But common sense, and perhaps maturity, tells you that just being different doesn't mean being abnormal. I have, in fact, come to appreciate the beauty, and hotness, of all kinds of body types as a result of watching a lot of porn (I'm horny and have never been laid; What can I say?), despite the fact that my preference is for Asian, petite, young (not younger than 18), smaller rather than bigger boobs and outies. So there.

Wrenna's views are welcome. She has opinions. But she goes too far in imposing her biases on others as an authority on what is normal, in my view. Gail Johnson would do better to review a book by an author who has had a lot of wide, rather than narrow, experience in the area of... whatever you want to call it. In my opinion.
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