The letter writer broke up with his girlfriend because he didn’t think she should settle for someone so small.
If I first met someone on a hook-up site or at a sex party and then we start seeing each other, what’s the best way to explain how we met when we’re at a social event and people ask?
It would be simpler, easier, and ally-ier if you sidestepped the issue by not speaking to anyone about your asshole ex ever again.
My husband and I are a bit mismatched sexually in many ways.
My wife and I have stopped having sex. I get the obligation vibe combined with a vanilla sex life, and it just turns me off.