Savage Love Column

While a wedding ring on a straight married man (or woman) will be assumed to mean “taken and off-limits”, the same assumption doesn’t apply in the case of a married gay man.
My partner's desire to bring another woman into our relationship borders on obsession.
You can pathologize your kinks by viewing them as rooted in the violence you were exposed to as a child, or you can take comfort in the fact that there’s no proven link between abuse and kinks.
A straight male friend practises sounding and has for years, and I'm pretty sure he does other things that he isn’t telling anyone about.
Practise saying, “I’m new at this, I’m a little nervous, and I’m feeling a little awkward.”
I want to be in a romantic, sexually committed relationship with a man and a woman at the same time.
Those are the “tricks that exist” to help guys like you, and it sounds like you’ve mastered them.
I am pretty sure that I am not a sexual predator.
My boyfriend of two years cannot climax or maintain an erection unless his testicles are handled, squeezed, pulled, or pressed on.
If the only thing you like about your current girlfriend is the fact that she’s trans, you’re probably guilty of objectifying her.