Savage Love Column

First off, never use a toy in the butt and then go straight into vaginal play.
I’m having trouble coming to terms with what seems to be a really warped, messed-up fetish.
My fiancée is extremely bothered by me looking at porn.
Bras, panties, and stockings are things that some men enjoy.
Is this wrong? Am I not the feminist I thought I was?
I'm five foot two and most women are taller than me.
Here are a bunch of questions that were submitted anonymously at a live taping of Savage Lovecast.
Several of my friends declare themselves “gender-neutral", but they don’t seem to know that they can be gender nonconforming without having to discard gender.
I'm enormously insecure about my genitals, so much so that it holds me back from receiving oral sex.
Acknowledge the discomfort and awkwardness (D & A) that has been created while simultaneously drawing attention to the fact that said D & A are not of your creation.