Twenty-one-year-old female here. When we were both 14, my first boyfriend took advantage of me. I wanted to explore my sexuality a little, but things went further than I wanted....
"She wants a dom, not a dick." Gather round everyone, and listen in as Dan Savage and Mistress Matisse gab about BDSM, where kink comes from, fantasy BDSM vs. non-consensual...
I have a mentally disabled cousin who I haven’t figured out how to help. He’s lived for more than 40 years in the same nursing home in a small, conservative town. His mental age...
Tales of open relationships gone bad.
Is it so wrong to move in with your boyfriend to save on rent?
Also, is it against the rules of matrimony to not serve cake at a wedding?...
I’m a 24-year-old straight, married female. I have been religiously reading your column in the Portland Mercury since I was 16. Thank you for explaining things that my parents...
How should you respond when your cousin accidentally sends you a naked pic?
Dick growing pills. Any money in that racket?
Dan speaks with Dr. Thomas Clark from the CDC about a...
I am a 23-year-old straight male. My ex-girlfriend and I started dating in high school, when we were both 17, and continued dating until I broke up with her the summer after our...
"Am I just his beard?" asks a woeful girlfriend.
Another gal did a little snooping, and discovered that her man has a "happy endings map" of all the places he could visit that...
DEAR READERS: Last week was made of problems. The bombing of the Boston Marathon, the explosion that levelled a small town in Texas, the rising tide of antigay violence in France...
Dan helps a sneeze fetishist concoct a plan to make her sex life more…sneezy.
Growing up, a man had insufficient testosterone. Now that he's taking meds he suddenly has the drive...