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Four years ago, I met a man on a “married but looking” website. We exchanged fantasies, which included wanting to have threesomes and a D/s relationship. He was 19 years my senior...
It's the Savage Lovecast Live from Vancouver, B.C. Featuring super-delightful sex researcher Dr. Lori Brotto and the incomparably filthy singer-songwriter Rachel Lark.
I’m 25, I’m a virgin, and I find it quite difficult to relate with girls. My main problem is I can’t accept my sexuality. I’m into fetish SM. But it seems like there are two parts...
A man is getting a yucky feeling from his best friend's new girlfriend. They've never met, mind you. But she seems kind of superficial? On social media? Should he speak up to...
A straight male friend practises sounding and has for years. I am pretty sure he does other things that he isn’t telling anyone about—not even his wife. He has some medical...
This week, Dan brings on heavy-hitter advice columnist Margo Howard (daughter of the Ann Landers…) to cackle and spar about cooking your way into your boyfriend's heart, and...
I’m a 28-year-old pan-curious married guy from the Midwest about to move to San Francisco. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years (married four), and we’ve started to explore being...
A man's wife uses their dom/sub relationship as ammo when they are fighting out of the bedroom. And that ain't fair! Should it be a deal-breaker if your boyfriend doesn't like...
I’m the bisexual everyone loves to hate because I want to be in a poly relationship with both a man and a woman. I am a woman who is into commitment, loyalty, love, trust, and...
Hey Dan Savage! What do you think about waiting to have sex until marriage? Dan? Good idea? A woman enjoys sharing naked photos of herself. Her friends warn her against it. But...

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