My gf is dating someone else. Guess I'll join you in the single life. The freedom is nice, but rent will go up...

I've never cheated in my life and I would never. Not all guys suck.

Sounds like your full of yourself. Big turn off.

I advocate going out with non-conventionally-attractive men. I think if you date within your beauty range, and you're beautiful, of course you are going to meet a considerable percentage of handsome, experienced, jaded playas.

You should either embrace dating dweebs or learn to handle the fact of male promiscuity - what you call 'cheating' is a primal drive in men (and Gods - consider the paramours of Zeus) that can be sublimated to varying degrees of success. It goes away around age 80. Until then, be realistic.

Like Steven - I don't cheat and never have. Even though I have a good female friend with whom a small part of me would love to cheat with - but the rest of me manages to slap that part around and keep it in submission....

studies show women and men cheat in equal proportions. also many women are attracted to bad guys who hurt them, but when they find a good man they experience him as boring or unattractive.

It should be no surprise. Vancouver is the city of promiscuous men and woman. Plenty of websites which allow for discreet hookups.

with cul de sac. There's one common denominator here: it's you.

I suspect you are making bad choices in men, plain and simple. I was married and engaged, and neither of those guys ever cheated on me - I know it.

Instead of writing off men altogether, perhaps take some time to assess what you've been looking for in men and whether you might benefit from making different choices.

Counselling might help, too - just for insight.

At least you don't have to contend with knowing that about half the available women under 40 in Vancouver are using "seekingarrangements.com" to make a little handbag money on the side. Gross.
That's being a man in this city...

I have a similar attitude towards women, but I find they love to cheat emotionally. Every woman I've been with has some emotional attachment to some other male they like to hang-out with. Staying single is fine; I do the same. You'll meet someone decent one day; not all men cheat.