Casual encounter

I want to try to have an intimate encounter (via craigslist) or try tinder, but I'm worried I will end up sleeping with someone who is married/in a relationship. I would feel terrible :(

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Or....

Dec 13, 2014 at 11:44pm

Someone mentally unstable or dangerous....there's too many creepy guys out there....so please be careful.

You will feel even more terrible

Dec 14, 2014 at 12:38am

if you caught the gift that keeps on giving

That is the least of your worries...

Dec 14, 2014 at 1:25am

You could meet a psycho, you could get the clap, you could be bored to death, you could get the herp, you could get AIDS, you could get stuck with someone who can't unstick themselves from you. Tread carefully. Most dating sites are full of weirdos...and Craigslist, being free, is full of cheapskate weirdos.

Or, use your gut.

Dec 14, 2014 at 3:04pm

I'm not saying it's the best way to find a 'casual intimate encounter'. Far from it. But, on a few occasions I've come across a legitimate female soul looking for physical intimacy. We've connected and lasted for some time with a FWB type situation. Eventually, like these types of relationships though, they run their course. I've used what I would say is common sense, and stayed tuned to my gut instinct. There are many weirdos, and creeps out there, not just males but females as well. So, my process is this: converse via alias email, get to know them, have a meet up in a public place, and decide from there. Nothing risked, nothing gained, but as others mentioned, tread carefully, and be safe.

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