On a whim I quickly made a POF profile but did not post pictures of myself. I wanted to be able to reply to someone's profile. I ended up messaging three different people. All with the same outcome. We had numerous messaging exchanges of friendly banter. Then they asked for photos, I obliged and sent photos. Bang! They're gone! I'm dropped like a hot potato! Yet I am a slim and attractive person! Granted, photos do not represent me well but I get plenty of male attention when I am in public. I am sure I did not look repulsive in my photos. I have never seen such rude, shallow and superficial behaviour! So in order to just to be able to chat to someone I have to look like a Vogue model?! I try to understand that generally men are more visual than women thus looks are more important to them but this shallow superficiality I experienced on POF was over the top! Perhaps with all the window shopping that happens with online dating, people develop unrealistic expectations. It doesn't seem healthy to me. Everything about that POF site repels me "Rate Photos" Give me a break!