I Have Low Self Esteem

I am a big girl and I just have really low self esteem because of this. I see all my thin friends now getting married and having kids and I am just alone. Its like my life is in stand still and everyone else is moving on. Men don't respect bigger girls. They think because we're big that they can treat us like garbage and walk all over us and thats just not right. I just have low self esteem and it hurts

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Someone who knows what to do to lose weight and gain muscle

Apr 30, 2015 at 10:24pm

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Type: 8 Min Abs
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Choose the videos with the ripped guy in blue spandex and join the gang and I.
Do that....then do 8 Min Buns and whatever else you want to do.
These at-home workouts are the BEST. I use those 2 and if you eat properly and keep it up you will lose weight and feel better about yourself. After each workout you MUST eat as soon as possible (eat within 30-60min). I cook for 30 min and then eat. Chicken (Complete lean protein) & Quinoa (Super food. Balanced complete protein). Remember you need a sufficient amount of sleep too. I have more tips but start with this. Gyms are for pussies.

PS. Drink milk immediately after you workout. Milk has Casein and Whey protein which is a Slow and Fast protein. Food digests slower. Feed your muscles ASAF'nP with milk!

Just Do It

Apr 30, 2015 at 11:00pm

Well if you hate it, then freaking change it. I'm overweight too but I'm taking the initiative to change that. Don't just freaking sit there and complain about it cause it isn't going to come off by whining. Not all guys hate overweight women either, maybe it's because they like a person who can actually take proper care of themselves and have a good personality.

Mr Downtown

Apr 30, 2015 at 11:42pm

On the contrary, respect has nothing to do with it.

I like big girls just as much as any other girl - the thing is you need to smile and make eye contact. The problem with most big girls in the city (esp Granville) is that they all act like they're the hottest shit ever, when most men are snickering.

Be yourself. Be nice. Smile. But if its really bothering you, why not try to sweat it off some? Working out (or even just a healthier routine/diet) makes the BIGGEST difference on esteem.

chawumba

May 1, 2015 at 12:48am

those guys are assholes and people who treat t people like that will die out soon. shallowness is the worst basis for a partner, and fuck them, you will not end up alone. your weight is not an issue their loser attitude is.

change it

May 1, 2015 at 9:56am

you are the only one who can change it! don't ask for a pity party when you are in full power of your own body!
feel better about yourself, and it will radiate to everyone!

J.M.T.

May 1, 2015 at 3:25pm

@Someone... What about Slurpee's after a workout, or chocolate milk? Instead of just chicken, can we substitute that with a couple McChicken's?

@J.M.T.

May 1, 2015 at 9:35pm

Don't waste our time.

But for you and only you I suggest you drink as many slurpees and eat as much McDonalds as you want after a workout.

Chocolate milk is great after a workout. Go nuts.

JohnShaft

May 5, 2015 at 6:29am

Personally, I've always found big girls sexy.

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