My boyfriend won't stop being friends with her... AmI just jealous or is there an issue?
posted June 18th, 2017 at 1:39 AM
Okay so several years ago I developed a crush on this man and fell in love with him. He got into a serious relationship with someone and so I still loved him but I didn't put myself out there. I gained a friend and we became best friends we did literally everything together! He and that girl broke up. And then my friend became friends with him and eventually we all started hanging out.. my friend got a boyfriend and sorta blew me off but we were still friends and then we all grew closer and then me and that guy started dating but I was still bothered by their friendship. If we working and someone would come in just to tell me that they saw my boyfriend and friend together at the store and they were awful close. I later found out that before we started dating she asked him to have sex with her and that her boyfriend wouldn't care and she was pregnant with her boyfriends baby at the time! They have grown closer recently and I'm really bothered. They started texting and FaceTiming all the time and hanging out. When they texted they would tell each other they loved each other and send kissy faces and hearts and be all flirty. When I confronted them they both freaked out on me and told me I had a jealousy problem and that they were just emojis. My boyfriend and I used to fight ALL the time over her and we have almost broke up several times too. I love him and wanna be with him but I'm miserable because of her. He stopped speaking to her and hanging out with her for almost a month and a half. I asked him why last week and he told me it's because he loved me and he wanted me to be happy and she he stopped. Randomly two days ago he told me he was going to her house. And begin to freak out and then he was like well I can't because she's out of town. And then I got upset and he was like I am only going to give her the shirt I got her when I was on vacation. So I calmed down. But all yesterday they were Snapchating and he wanted to go to the movies with some of his other friends and I agreed and said okay you go have fun and you can do whatever you want without asking but please don't upset me by being with her and he got happy and made me shake on it and he kissed me and told me he loved me. Today they were still Snapchatting and I got mad and said has she asked you to hangout yet? And he was like, yes! And I said, well are you? And he responded, yeah prolly. I get angry and he goes home he waits a few hours but we finally get on FaceTime and he tells me to explain why I am so mad. I asked him why he told me he dropped her cuz he loves me last week and then tells me yesterday to shake on it and then today they are buddy buddy. He got mad and was like I didn't mean it that way. I just don't understand why you're so mad? I am always the third wheel with them. My boyfriend doesn't even know who I am when she is in the room. They are so close the entire town things her baby is his and I have to live with that. People ask me all the time if I find their friendship weird. It hurts. Am I crazy or is there something wrong here?