Porn is pretty HD and intense these days...It's affecting all of our various sex lives.

I love loving myself too, girl; however, this is an issue. While I'm super freaky deeky, I think they've done some pretty convincing studies that porn will mess your head right up. It isn't reality. With that being said, women, I think, need to be mentally stimulated in order to come. I literally only come when someone is going down on me and I am closing my eyes, going somewhere else in my head. That sounds insane, but it is my reality. Porn is also an escape. I watch and then go in the shower and make sweet love to my shower massager. I do, however, love to fuck. I like the intensity; someone invading your space. A good pounding is a way to forget about stress and Donald Trump. Anyway, I say talk to a counsellor. Or fuck that, talk to yourself. Sit down with a pen and a pad, write the epic tale of when your deep-seeded perversion manifested, and discover what makes you you. Even if you don't solve your problem, you'll have one hell of a juicy, hilarious, possibly painful, amazing story in your hands.

Anyway, try to remember, life isn't all sex. I'm a perv so I can say this. There's so much beyond body slamming and euphoria. It is great, no doubt, but try to find the field beyond the sucking, fucking and licking. There's a great deal to see.

Good luck and godspeed!

Ya it could be an addiction, its interfering with your life and your not comfortable with it, but addictions can be helped and managed. It's not uncommon to not be able to be gotten off by someone else. easing off masturbating can improve that. Also for any women, especially when depending on people with different anatomy, it can be difficult at first, alot of men don't really understand the clitoris or how long it takes, especially at first, because men don't have as much exposure at how to pleasure a women, where as women have watched so many blowjobs and read so many cosmo tips, and porn for women's pleasure is underwatched. so communication and honesty are really beneficial. Also, complicating the issue is multiple orgasms, which makes it feel like it takes alot longer to get off, because you can keep going and it takes longer to complete. fun eh, i don't think you getting yourself off because other people can't is an issue, i think it's great to be comfortable and into it, also other people can be included in masturbation, kissing, other manual stuff. there could be medical causes to wanting to orgasm often, sometimes to do with estrogen and blood flow to the vulva, it could also be a stress and hormonal response, if you feel distressed about it, doing some research and experimenting with stress tolerance could help, so could talking about it with people who been there. I really don't know if there is a number that sets an addiction level, women's daily masturbation is different all over and under reported, and some people carry masturbation shame more so than others (myself included), but the definition of addiction is to cause you or others harm. some men are also lame about women getting themselves off because of insecurities and a pressure to be the orgasm provider (impossible standards). birth control can lower libido significantly also, but this is faaaarrrrr from medical advice, just personal experience.
You may actually be 100% awesome if everything is kosher.

That's what most women do to cum during penetration...it's totally normal.

The whacking it 15x seems unusual but maybe that's just your normal level. If it's not preventing you from working, socializing, hygiene and whatnot, is it a problem?

Why don't you tell your MSP doc about this problem? I am sure it will generate a good 4 minutes of conversation.

It got to the point that she could only orgasm with her legs closed and two electric devices on Max. She masturbated frequently and honestly I just became super bored being with her.

I also know a dude that told me he will spend the rest of his life alone because the only thing, hat gets him going is abusing his dick more than he could convince a woman to.

I dont hang with him anymore either.

What gets me off is the eyes of the woman I'm pleasing.

Sure 15 times a day is above average but is it really a problem? That level of sexuality is a rare and beautiful thing.

You are not alone. I also used to be where you are. I am now 11 days clean. Its been among the toughest times ever. The longest I have been off is 21 days, and thats when I realized that whatever the cost, this is a fight worth it.
Two choices:
1 - Help yourself
2 - Pity yourself

Seems healthy to me. Don't sweat it, enjoy it!

Are you sure your libido isn't just naturally high? There's lots of different levels for sex drive. As for porn- as long as you have a relatively balanced life (you have friends and meaningful relationships, you have activities/sports you like to do, you have a job or business, etc), then what's the harm?

Maybe the problem is emotional or traumatic in nature, rather than in terms of "addiction". I could have said the same thing about myself porn-wise a few years ago (I'm a guy), with the whole "porn causes ED and dopamine overload", and all that stuff. But do you know what the real problem was? Anxiety, post-traumatic stress from sexual abuse, and a lack of meaningful relationships in my life- so porn became my only "real" sexual outlet in between partners.

So, don't blame the symptoms of something deeper going on, if indeed there's even a problem. Trying to "quit" the symptom and framing it as an addiction isn't going to help. Porn is not a drug. Just check with your friends, or see a therapist for a few sessions and see what's going on. Good luck!

P.S: As for women that can "only" come a certain way, that's pretty normal too- just in case you guys felt like freaks or something. Same with fetishes and fantasizing about "perverted" or "bdsm" or "totally freaky or abusive things". As long as you understand the difference between fantasy/reality, consent and violation, and sex and abuse with a consenting adult partner, then you're fine.