So, I am a recently separated guy. After my separation I contacted a woman from my past and we began seeing each other very now and again - for lunch and conversations. To be clear I have thought about this person many, many times over the years of my marriage and always felt that "what if" feeling about her. She was the one who got away. Turns out she felt the same way about me. The problem is she is married. She says she wants to end the marriage, which is great for us, but super super hard for her, for obvious reasons. Plus I feel like a major jerk for being the "other man".
This woman is beautiful, smart and driven and I am batshit in love with her so I am going to wait for her until she is free and clear. Has anyone else been in this situation and have advice on how best to balance the growth of what is a clandestine relationship and the need we both have to not feel like utter shits?