I have the hots for a co worker

She is pretty. Slowly falling for her due to working closely with her. I stalk her on FB and Instagram. But can't have her until one of us quits.


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Sep 11, 2017 at 11:22pm

What makes you think you can "have her"? Oh ya, rape culture.

Johnny Dee

Sep 12, 2017 at 3:28am

pathetic loser


Sep 12, 2017 at 6:59am

1. You can't "have" her at all - she's not a possession.
2. You're assuming the feelings are mutual; just because you're falling for her doesn't automatically mean she's falling for you.
3. What happens if she rejects you?
4. Stalking is NEVER okay. That is criminal behaviour.

Seek therapy. For everyone's sake.


Sep 12, 2017 at 11:04am

You can't have anything, and you better be careful w the stalking, she might be totally creeped out. You should ask yourself should you be doing this?

Don't you love...

Sep 12, 2017 at 11:07am

... our new anti-miscegenation policies? I sure am glad we traded all of that racism, homophobia, etc. for all of this wonderful sexual repression!

You Are Wise

Sep 12, 2017 at 11:25am

Mine just quit...
but another one came back

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Hey OP

Sep 12, 2017 at 10:00pm

Sorry for all the hair-trigger responses (probably from my fellow females) that reacted to your use of "stalk". Most people often check out social media sites that their crushes are on, so you aren't doing anything wrong or uncommon.
Just avoid using the word "stalk".
And maybe "to have"... if what you really meant was "date".
Good luck ;)

@Hey OP

Sep 13, 2017 at 5:49pm

Sounds like you're trying to make the OP's post more appropriate by changing the words that are cause for concern. If you have to change someone's message to make it seem less threatening, you're really not understanding the underlying attitude and mindset behind the message.

Also, how are you to know whether the messages are "hair-trigger responses" or not? Perhaps these people took time to post something after careful consideration? And why are you assuming these people are females? (By the way, using 'women' instead of females is a more appropriate choice of word. But, as an authority on language, you must already know this. If you don't, do some research both on this and on the mindset of stalkers.)

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