Power sharing

At least with gay male couples, they can equalize the power in the relationship by flip-fucking. Straight couples don't have the same option. What I would really like is to find a guy who doesn't freak out at the idea of me getting a strap-on dildo, and pegging him. Perhaps if more men had the experience of what it feels like to be entered, they would be more sensitive to how it feels to be a woman , both physically and psychologically.

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I Get It,

Sep 12, 2017 at 5:03pm

But somehow I don't think that's the way it works.
Reminder, you've got to work up to that with plugs and lube...

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Watch Out!

Sep 12, 2017 at 5:07pm

He may like it and switch teams on you.

Why?

Sep 12, 2017 at 5:47pm

there are those people, but you're suggesting that men should be raped to find out what it feels like to be penetrated. If a human of any gender does not want to be penetrated, like it doesn't excite them, then no. Maybe all women should get a penis surgically attached so they can know what it's like to be a man and be told you're not sensitive or some shit because you don't enjoy anal penetration. Just enjoy your parts however you see fit and don't force your opinions or experiences on others. We're all equal in our differences.

I think

Sep 12, 2017 at 5:55pm

the reason that a lot of straight men are uncomfortable with gay men, is because they're afraid of another man treating THEM with the same insensitivity and aggression with which they themselves treat women.

(I'm paraphrasing a comment I read several decades ago from an interview with Madonna.)

Dude

Sep 12, 2017 at 6:22pm

A gay male isn't a woman. And being penetrated doesn't make you submissive.

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I hear you!

Sep 12, 2017 at 7:01pm

I'm in a relationship with a guy who has always been obsessed with anal. I'm okay with it sometimes, but I prefer vaginal sex because I get better orgasms from it, and it's not painful, which anal can be. Recently I've told him that if he has a problem with my preference, perhaps he should allow me to penetrate him so he could experience what it feels like. He refused (and really, I'm not interested in actually doing it), so at this point I feel that we may need to break up unless he lays off the anal so much. Oh and before anyone jumps to conclusions like I must have a loose vagina or whatever, that is definitely not the issue, and he's said as much himself, and the feedback I've had from other partners has been that I'm just fine in that department. He's just always been focused on anal sex for the majority of his sexual history. We use lube and all that, but let's face it, sometimes it's just plain painful, no matter what.

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Dante11

Sep 12, 2017 at 8:28pm

Hahaha!

You can peg me anytime. Man I wish confessions had messaging functionality.

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Wow.

Sep 12, 2017 at 8:33pm

Did someone paraphrase Madonna? Holy Shit.

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@I hear you

Sep 12, 2017 at 9:36pm

It sounds like you are being pressured to have "consensual" anal sex. Sex is not about your male partner achieving orgasm and hurting you in the process. If he doesn't care that it hurts you and you gain no sexual fulfillment it is not fine. Dump that piece asap. Your comment hurts my heart.

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@ Why?

Sep 12, 2017 at 9:56pm

The OP is talking about CONSENSUAL kinky sex, not rape!
How did you jump to rape?!!
Get a grip.

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