Chemistryposted October 13th, 2017 at 8:37 PM We often have the most intense and exhilarating chemistry with the wrong people, which could be the reason many of us are attracted to the "bad boy" or "bad girl." Show 5 Comments 5 Comments Post a Comment That's what you thinkOct 14, 2017 at 11:14amUntil you find that kind of chemistry with the right person...now that will really blow your mind!! philOct 14, 2017 at 12:15pmWhich makes for a great short term bad decision and a bad long term decision. Choose wisely. yepOct 14, 2017 at 3:45pm5 years of dating has def. proven that for me This just showsOct 15, 2017 at 1:55pmwhat you think of yourself. Low self esteem. Common problem. I blame society, myselfOct 16, 2017 at 11:24amPeople who are good at sex tend to have a lot of it.People who have a lot of sex are traditionally not considered to be good people.Ergo, people choose early in life between being socially nice and having a great sex life.It is, of course, a false dichotomy - you can be perfectly civil and well adjusted and still have a carnal appetite and skills.However, because of social conditioning, the people we find great to fuck tend to slack off in the rest of the qualities that we look for in long term relationships.It's unfortunate, particularly if you have no interest in having (or being) an affair. Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?