I deserve better

Men message me on dating sites and all they want to do is have sex with me. These men are disgusting. My profile clearly says I want a long term relationship. If you want sex then go to a sex website not a dating website. Online dating is just so hard. There just aren't a lot of good looking men successful single men here. Its honestly a dating wasteland. Married people have no idea what I am talking about. I deserve someone amazing and if I have to wait till I am 28 or 30 to meet him I will wait.


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Nov 19, 2017 at 10:26pm

When you are in your 40s we look forward to adding you to the long list of dating complainers on this site. You deserve nothing. No one deserves anything. You will get what you are willing to work for and make happen. Guys don't want the "long term" you seek. Well a few Omegas and lots of Betas maybe. At least you'll be able to nag.

oh I see

Nov 19, 2017 at 10:42pm

By good looking successful men you mean flawless, good looks & a career that brings in the big bucks? I guess that leaves out the average looking hospital workers or letter carriers or dishwashers, who aren'y looking for sex

Your baby clock is ticking

Nov 19, 2017 at 11:32pm

Pickings are slim as it is and it doesn't matter what you think you deserve. With that attitude you're not going to get anyone, and by the time you're 30 you can just forget about ever hooking up even if it is just for sex, since your competition is going to be younger, with more to offer.

Eva Gage

Nov 20, 2017 at 1:00am

Sounds like a classic Georgia Straight confession from an over privileged, middle class white girl who feels like a victim of society. Poor wittle baby.
Maybe stop disqualifying people based on your estimate of their success or wealth? I know it's hard for most women to understand why that's wrong, but give it a shot anyway!
Also, you should be aware of the fact that women like you "deserve" only one thing, and that is to be ignored.


Nov 20, 2017 at 4:43am


You deserve to remain single, I think!

Thats right baby....

Nov 20, 2017 at 11:12am

hold out for the BIG payday.


Nov 20, 2017 at 11:51am

Yes, other people are disgusting but you are amazing. happy dating, I'm sure it will go really well.

Or, we could consider that people are different and not dump judgement all over people who aren't living or looking for the same things we are... But nah, that's so un-Vancouver, right?


Nov 20, 2017 at 12:24pm

Good luck with that...When you are basing your criteria on finding a 'successfull' man u r screwed. When it is all about how much some Dude makes that says it all...Gold diggers loke u r not in high demand.

Same Boat

Nov 20, 2017 at 1:59pm

I felt the same way at your age. I joked that I would wait until I was 30 and everyone was just going through their first divorce and then I'd find a nice guy. But here I am, 10 years after that age and happier single than I ever was with someone. You can have my divorcees if you like.


Nov 20, 2017 at 3:41pm

May I ask you a question? Why do you believe you "deserve someone amazing"?

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