Not this time, baby!

I found myself apologizing to a guy for the inconvience of having my period. "Sorry we can't have sex tonight....yea I know ... timing.... ugh noooo I'd rather not have shower sex I don't feel good I have cramps but we could just watch a--- oh.... yea I understand.... another time..." I am not doing it. I am not letting another person make me feel like shit and treat me like a place to stick a d. One year without putting myself out there . it's been so liberating already and it's only been a few months ! This is the first time in my life ( since puberty) that I haven't been looking for/ in a relationship ! Oh man it's amazing. I love my career, I love all closet space, I LOVE NOT HAVING TO WATCH AVENGERS/MARVEL MOVIES AND PRETEND I DIDNT HATE THEM. And I looooveeeeeeee having my period in peace. Ahhhhh beautiful life party of one.

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Fantastic!

Nov 28, 2017 at 10:44pm

Get used to it.

Be Wise

Nov 29, 2017 at 2:09am

Happy that you're happy! Keep it up, keep going and do what you choose with your body! It's nobody's choice but yours. But don't vilify your man for wanting to have sex, even if you have to say no twice! He'll get it, he's not dumb!

Mercy on the misandry! Mercy on the misandry!

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Um, ok

Nov 29, 2017 at 3:50am

Ok, so.... Vancouver women:
"Why is it so hard to find a decent man to date in Vancouver? All the men here are crap."
And now,
"To hell with men, being single is awesome! Men are just a pain in the ass, who needs 'em?"
I get that you hate comic book movies OP, but have you given any thought to moving to Themyscira?

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Love You!

Nov 29, 2017 at 6:33am

Proud of you! i agree with you, yet you Will meet a man, your 'Princely Person' you might say,who Will accept you as you are,allow you to be yourself,and he will love&adore you profoundly (romantically /intimately/physically/emotionally/intellectually and on all other levels of relationship/partnership humanly possible) 24/7 year-round just because, just because being with you and being close to you makes him feel so good&happy. giving you freedom to do, eat and watch what you like Will be his pleasure,as you will have and show mutual love,respect,trust,loyalty and friendship and protection towards each other and be BFF in the most amazing ways possible.Of course, loyalty and exclusivity to each other romantically and intimately will happen 'au naturel' (in name same of wisdom on many levels,yet being with each other can be said to be like 'drinking water' or 'breathing',it will be that easy and satisfying ). and there will be ease of mutual 2-way communication,honesty and free-expressivity between each other such that you both would never want to or desire to leave each other for anyone else,both mutually desiring to be and live&love&make-love with each other for lifetime++/forever. This may and does happen,and we call it ... True Love. when we have the courage, patience and endurance to be able to not have 'hook-ups' or intimate/sexual relations with another person because of sexual needs/impetus (sexual desire is a good thing as it is part of pleaure of being human, and may be satisfied without a 'sexual partner' thru our own self-gratification (masturbation) by fantasizing, techniques), while awaiting to meet 'by chance/ serendipity' The Love of our life: unique mirror-person of each person do exist for each and every person,i do believe this is Absolute Truth.in the meanwhile of 'awaiting' our True Love,we may do our best to do what we can do to really take care of ourselves,doing our best to heal any and all past or current trauma of mental/medical/physical/ sexual/psychological/ emotional issues we may have 'accumulated' thru the harshness/ unfairness of life and making a living on earth. When the timing is 'correct/due',we then Will run into unique Love of our life in a surprise meeting that will bring mutual joy and peace of mind (all-relationship needs satisfaction)we all crave&dream of. i hope this makes sense.i found mi DFTF & await her return<3

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I love this!

Nov 29, 2017 at 7:45am

..and definitely don't miss being left by some selfish guy to clean up the mess after period sex.

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ohhh

Nov 29, 2017 at 8:48am

Keep telling yourself that..poor baby!

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OK then

Nov 29, 2017 at 9:17am

I feel so much better for reading this......NOT.

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a girl

Nov 29, 2017 at 11:45am

Did you know that orgasms are great for cramps? Smoke some indica then get down and dirty. Save the shower till after.

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Please don't pretend

Nov 29, 2017 at 1:17pm

It's ok to dislike dude movies. People can't read your mind. If you say you don't hate something, then a person will believe you.

Maybe Marvel movies are created so dudes can go enjoy them elsewhere while their menstruating lover can curl up with a hot water bottle and watch Salad Fingers.

Anyways, good on you for finding your own path.

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Devil's Advocate

Nov 29, 2017 at 2:59pm

By chance, have you ever tried period sex? I did for the first time a couple of years ago and wow, I can't believe what I was missing. You make a huge mess but it feels so good and your period stops faster. Just a thought for when you reenter the dating world.

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