Taking a Chance

posted November 6th, 2017 at 11:15 PM

My life changed last year. I spent a couple of weeks in Montreal and I met this amazing man. I had literally spent 5 years on the dating grind here and it was awful and so depressing. He literally swept me off my feet. He had the confidence to walk up to me and have a real conversation. We had coffee, then dinner, and then we danced. I fell for him immediately. He flew down to visit me and I flew down again to visit him and I realized this is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. So I am taking a chance at love and am moving to Montreal and I am just really scared.

18 Comments

Careful Dude.....

Nov 7, 2017 at 12:48pm

you know Montreal is the Porn Capital of Canada.

Anonymous

Nov 7, 2017 at 1:13pm

The way you describe thing you would be crazy not to go.

Advice: Avoid joint bank accounts/finances. Keep hold of your own fucking money.

Don't be scared - be excited

Nov 7, 2017 at 2:57pm

Even if it ultimately doesn't work out, it's a smart move. Life is short and you must take risks. Good for you!

Congrats!

Nov 7, 2017 at 3:10pm

Thanks for the smile. You brought joy to me today. All the best with this adventure!

Mitch

Nov 7, 2017 at 3:37pm

You were excited on holiday...he was excited on holiday....day to day routine might not be as eventful and carefree..just sayin.

Congratulations!

Nov 7, 2017 at 3:57pm

You are so lucky to find someone to have a conversation with! Struggling with dating myself, so sending you a high five!

Have a back up plan

Nov 7, 2017 at 4:46pm

But go for it!

Other side

Nov 7, 2017 at 5:52pm

" I had literally spent 5 years on the dating grind here and it was awful and so depressing."
I've been to Montreal and the women there are 10 times more friendly and open than they are here.

I did it too

Nov 7, 2017 at 9:28pm

I met my husband in Vancouver when he was visiting from Germany! I moved to Germany for 6 years and now we are here on vacation! Good luck! Cheering for you !!

Former Montrealer

Nov 7, 2017 at 9:56pm

Bring warm clothes - Montreal winters can be brutal. (that's why I moved to Vancouver many years ago). People of all genders in Montreal are way friendlier and more open than on the West Coast. I've had great conversations just waiting at bus stops there. Life is a journey, so go and enjoy.