When a hot 20-something colleague comments about the “hot 30- and 40-year olds” to me (40-something), is it an idea they’re trying to plant in my head, that they’re game for someone older like me?


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This is sooo written by a guy

Dec 7, 2017 at 5:26pm

No man, it doesn't.
It's just a fact that a lot of people (more women than men) look good for their age due to either good genetics or upkeep or both.
Look up erbium laser, ladies.

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The important word is "colleague"

Dec 7, 2017 at 6:49pm

Meaning someone at work.
OP: gay or lesbian,go for it.
OP:if you are a woman and it's a younger guy then go ahead as you'll be applauded and be the envy of your female colleagues.
OP:if you are a man,ignore this younger woman. Perhaps you'll go out on a date and she won't like you,or maybe you'll flirt back and then you'll be hauled up to HR for sexual harassment,be fired and labelled a creepy pervert. Then, be unable to find work for a very long time.

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Dec 7, 2017 at 7:42pm


And yes.

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Emotional age

Dec 7, 2017 at 8:45pm

A 40 something who doesn't know how to navigate this isn't secure enough to be trusted with the well being of a 20 something.

This is at work. Keep it in your pants until you can be certain you're not making her workplace uncomfortable with your supposed interest.

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Dec 8, 2017 at 9:21am

Wasn't me but could have been 10 yrs ago. And yes.

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I think...

Dec 8, 2017 at 9:22am

for the most part is no, they may be subtly trying to manipulate you.

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@This is sooo

Dec 8, 2017 at 4:19pm

"It's just a fact that a lot of people (more women than men)"

Nah,there are tons of studies that prove the opposite. Suggest google...

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Dec 9, 2017 at 12:53am

Yeah, maybe. That's how I would take it.

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