deep struck

I recently ended my common law marriage of 16 years. The worst part was I do still love her ..... blah blah! Not what I'm getting at. We been apart now about 4 months now and i miss her to bits. Unfortunately what bothers me the most is my brothers suicide that happened long before we met. For reasons unexplained I cant believe that this terrible situation has more taken priority over my life than the ending of a 16 year relationship. So, lost still in my thoughts of grief ? After all these years? Is that normal? Thanks for letting me ask the question.


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Feb 8, 2018 at 8:30am

Yes. unresolved issues can ruin everything. I too had a wonderful woman in my life but a horrible car accident reared it's ugly head nine years later and ruined us. Physio missed a few things it would seem.

Never say thank you for asking a question, the door is always open.

I work in the DTES , I see unresolved issues every day that ruin the lives of our people.

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Feb 8, 2018 at 8:41am

Time doesn’t heal by itself, it’s what you do with the time that can be healing.

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Feb 8, 2018 at 8:48am

16 years is nothing compared to losing someone you've known your entire life.

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Try grief counselling

Feb 8, 2018 at 8:04pm

It's paramount to overcoming suicide. Time doesn't heal all wounds, it conceals them.

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