My roommate is batshit fucking crazy

Totally manipulative. Last week was the final straw. I had family visit from out of town and the one night that my cousin crashed on the couch my roommate made him feel very unwelcome. 5 minutes after turning lights out she came out of her room and just stood over the couch that my cousin was on. He didn't feel welcome staying over again: he's my oldest and one of my only friends. She also treated him with hostile passive aggression - much how she's treated me for several months: no speaking or eye contact, storming past angrily. I need out. I don't deserve this. She obviously has an issue with me but will not either discuss it or get over out. It just festers. When I had an issue I brought it up, it wasn't personal, but she was upset because I didn't say anything - even though I did. I clearly can't win her manipulative game. I don't like being around her now, she may be unhinged. I mean, the thing with my cousin is creepy af; don't want to be around someone like that.

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fuck her!

Feb 14, 2018 at 4:25pm

Why does the dick head always get their way? Tell her that if she can't be pleasant then she can find her own god damn place! So sick of this situation. I've been in it and it's so horrible.

Python

Feb 14, 2018 at 5:04pm

So give her notice today that you are moving our on April 1. That will give you both 6 weeks to get your new living arrangements sorted. Don't get into the "but, I found this place, why do I have to move?" stuff...it will just lead to more of the same BS. Leave !

Deal breaker

Feb 15, 2018 at 9:17am

The hovering over the couch thing is creepy! BUT, maybe a strange male in her house is a trigger for her? Or maybe she was hot for him and didn't know how to get boned so she acted all fatal attraction.
Maybe she's hot for you and is trying to get you to fight for her?
Good luck with psycho.
Decide what behavior is a deal breaker, address it in the moment or move on.

Try

Feb 16, 2018 at 9:16am

Try dating here. I have sat across from your roomy countless times looking at my watch hoping the night would end.

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