That's what I've been wondering about. How can it be called rape when you have married the person, and in a sense gave him that part of you.
But there have been many times where I didn't give that part - I explicitly said no several times in a night.
Sometimes so much that I chose to sleep on the sofa, remain with the kids so that I could just be "alone" sleeping, regardless of the comfort.
There were many times where I felt violated and was so angry that I had trouble sleeping.
Why did I need to put out every night just to be able to sleep in my bed?
Why can't I just sleep in my bed w/o being bothered?
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