But that us a HUGE commitment! If he really loves you then I can see why he'd support you but asking him to basically be your caretaker for a year and beyond is asking A LOT! It depends how long you've been with him. Also, I am 5'2" and people always make comments. When telling stories they compare tiny people and animals to me which is really annoying, so I get it. However, getting your legs cut off and reattached just to feel more attractive does call your mental stability into question. Not to mention your priorities.

see a mental health professional.

to your boyfriend. Supporting you in this would be akin to complicity with self abuse. We all have our fitishes, but they shouldn't all be supported.

Are you out of your fucking mind????

You should make an appointment to a good psychiatrist as soon as possible.

Seriously OP, you are going to spend a year in a wheelchair and $150,000 USD ($200,000 CAD) to be 5'4"?????? . I'm a 5'4" female and there are no advantages to being average height. You still won't see anything at concerts, clothes at the mall are all sold out in the too common sizes that we wear, you won't be a head-turner as you walk down the street. You'll just be.... average.... and you'll probably wreck your legs. I'm siding with your boyfriend on this one.

I'm 5'2 and that is not short at all! Seriously, you don't need surgery.

is a smart person. You should take his advice..

surgery worked out for some people does not mean the surgery will work out for you. Something might go wrong - surgeons and anesthesiologists make mistakes- and and you would be worse off, and minus the money. Practice gratitude for what you do have - it sounds like alot.

This reminds me of my wife, when we were dating. She was in her teens and constantly talking garbage like this. In my then gf's case it was shit like getting permanent makeup put on her face.

Methinks females are hard driven to talk this way. It's some kind of wack attention thing, and eventually she should grow out of it.