Just Being Me

I tell women straight up that I am only a FWB's kinda guy and everything's cool. I got a full time job and a ton of friends and hobbies so I don't really have time for a girlfriend. I don't hate on people for being in relationships. I am 23 so I am not looking for a relationship I am just looking to have fun. I go out with girls to places and then we do stuff. I just get so much hate from women calling me a man-whore and leading women on. I am honest with girls from the beginning so I shouldn't be getting any hate from women for just being me because I am a good guy.


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That’s all good as long as...

Apr 20, 2018 at 7:55pm

..you don’t lead them on by words and actions into thinking that they’re “different”. Too many guys think that as long as they say that they’re only interested in FWB, anything they do is fine. If you’re spending all of your time with her, saying things that imply that you will be there in the future, saying you love her, or just basically behaving as if you’re a boyfriend and not just a f*** buddy, then you’re being a jerk. I’ve experienced this myself and have witnessed it with friends. It seems to be the “go-to” for too many guys who want to have their cake and eat it too.

Good for you dude...

Apr 20, 2018 at 8:10pm

you took a page from the woman's 'playbook' hope you don't get raped though. You might want to try some older women, they'll take you to nicer places and spend more money on you.

Simply Put

Apr 20, 2018 at 8:53pm

Is not your fault. The fault lies with them: they think that they are the one with the magic cootchie that will tame the wild man.
When they find their cootchie isn't so special,they can't deal with the rejection and to absolve themselves of any blame,they take it out on you.

Who the fuck is downvoting this???

Apr 20, 2018 at 8:58pm

I am a 33 year old woman and I think this is great. A 23 year old guy who’s honest about wanting to have fun, nothing serious and doesn’t want to make time for a relationship. Good on you man!! Keep doing what you’re doing and have fun!!!

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Apr 20, 2018 at 9:41pm

You sound immature but you are 23 so you have time to grow up. Eventually you'll grow out of this phase but for the time being be careful and always wear protection.

I am

Apr 21, 2018 at 3:54am

caveman. Hear me roarrrrrr!

@That's all good

Apr 21, 2018 at 4:57am

I'm a little confused. So if I'm sleeping with her and buy her dinner and hold her hand it's bad, but if I just fuck her it's good? What if she knows it's just a temporary thing? Like, hey my long distance girlfriend is mad at me and broke up and I fly to see her in a month and we'll probably fix things, so we got this month?

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Good for you!!

Apr 21, 2018 at 9:55am

I am a 36 yr old guy, into longer term relations kinda area of my life now.. but.. when I was your age? absolutely, you want to experience a range of different sexy women before you settle down.. sow your oats a bit.. plus I think it makes you better in bed if you are well experienced with women..

life is short, lots of beautiful women out there;) spring is coming too, and the skirts..

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Your 20s

Apr 21, 2018 at 11:06am

Go forth and multiply. I’m a seasoned older woman. What your doing is great. Your in your 20s. Try everything. Have fun. Make mistakes. It won’t be quite so easy as you age. So do it now with respect and always always leave a woman in better shape than you found her. Stay away from the PUA behaviour. Treat ladies gently and with truth. You will master being an honorable man.

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@ @That's all good

Apr 21, 2018 at 12:14pm

I believe they're referring more to incorporating her into their life. I know someone who used to invite these girls to all sorts of events involving close friends or family with zero intention of a future. Nearly every one ended poorly with the girl accusing him of leading her on. He never spoke about a relationship with them, but he definitely behaved as if they were a potential long term partner.

Could be wrong, but what I've said should be avoided, from what I've seen.

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